you are asking, is it possible to be married and to be free?
if you take marriage non-seriously, then you can be free. if you take it seriously, then freedom is impossible. take marriage just as a game -- it is a game. have a little sense of humor, that it is a role you are playing on the stage of life; but it is not something that belongs to existence or has any reality -- it is a fiction.but people are so stupid that they even start taking fiction for reality. i have seen people reading fiction with tears in their eyes, because in the fiction things are going so tragically. it is a very good device in the movies that they put the lights off, so everybody can enjoy the movie, laugh, cry, be sad, be happy.
if there was light it would be a little difficult -- what will others think? and they know perfectly well that the screen is empty -- there is nobody; it is just a projected picture. but they forget it completely.and the same has happened with our lives. many things which are sim* to be taken humorously, we take so seriously -- and from that seriousness begins our problem.in the first place, why should you get married? you love someone, live with someone -- it is part of your basic rights. you can live with someone, you can love someone.
marriage is not something that happens in heaven, it happens here, through the crafty priests. but if you want to join the game with society and dont want to stand alone and aloof, you make it clear to your wife or to your husband that this marriage is just a game: never take it seriously. i will remain as independent as i was before marriage, and you will remain as independent as you were before marriage. neither i am going to interfere in your life, nor are you going to interfere in my life; we will live as two friends together, sharing our joys, sharing our freedom -- but not becoming a burden on each other.and any moment we feel that the spring has passed, the honeymoon is over, we will be sincere enough not to go on pretending, but to say to each other that we loved much -- and we will remain grateful to each other forever, and the days of love will haunt us in our memories, in our dreams, as golden -- but the spring is over.our paths have come to a point, where although it is sad, we have to part, because now, living together is not a sign of love. if i love you, i will leave you the moment i see my love has become a misery to you. if you love me, you will leave me the moment you see that your love is creating an imprisonment for me.
Different people have various viewpoints toward marriage cause they have different roles and stands.QianZhongshu,an eminent writer who prefaces his book A Surrounded City with ‘Marriage is a surrounded city which people encircled want to flee from while those who stand out the city are eager to step into’. However,Jane Austen started her book Pride and Prejudice with ‘It is a truth universally
Let's Do Sports I think it's very important for everyone to do sports. I like sports because they're not only good for my health but also good for my study. My favorite sport is swimming. Whenever I am free， I will have a swim with my friends in the swimming pool. After swimming，I usually feel happy and relaxed. What's more，Ican put more energy into my study. So let's do sports，and we will become stronger and stronger.
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让我们做运动，我认为这是非常重要的，让每个人都能做运动。我喜欢运动，因为他们不仅对我的健康有利，但也对我的学*。我最喜欢的运动是游泳。每当我有空的话，我将和我的朋友们去游泳，在游泳池里。游完泳后，我总是感到快乐和轻松。更重要的是，我将更多的精力投入到我的学*。所以，让我们来做运动，并且我们将变得越来越强大。
As the form reflects, with the Beijing 20xx Olympic Games’ drawing nearer and nearer, some positive changes have taken place.
Before that, each week, only two so-called PE lessons were scheduled, during which sometimes we were actually having lessons such as Chinese, Math, Physics and so on. Most of us, who mainly cared for our studies, always neglected physical training.
May holiday is coming. Our family is going to do something. Today I called my little brother's phone at the noon. He asked me what I am going to do in the holiday. I told him we want to go on a trip some day during but where we don't decide to go. We are going to sleep in the morning May first. Then we are going to go to Dawukou by bus in the afternoon. We are going to have a day off May 2nd. If it's will fine in May 3rd we are going to go out on trip. I am going to go to the Forest Park. Your sister's husband is going to hometown Xiamiao. He wants to go fishing.
Gui Zexuan is going to climb the hill with his friends. We are discussing. I asked my little brother what plans you are going to in the holiday. He invited us to go his home. He wanted to go Suyukou with us. I was glad to hear the news. Our family decided to go Yingchun to Suyukou on trip.
Tomorrow is labor day. I'm lying in bed thinking, what is labor day?
Before I was 3 years old, I didn't know what it was to work, and the days passed by my teeth, my toddler and my frolic.
When I was 3 years old, I saw my father holding a ruler, pulling a protractor, and drawing a crisscrossed engineering drawing. Mom gets up early every day to take care of the small store, opening a shop is labor. Grandpa and grandma do not have to work and go to school every day. Retirement is a kind of easy labor. I also want to be a grandmother. The day passed away from my father's footsteps and his mother's footsteps.
Hello,everyone!Do you want to know anything about my vacation?Now let me tell you!I had a very exciting vacation.I went to Beijing.There are many special place there.For example,Hutong 、the Palace Museum、the Childrens' Palace and more.I went to the Hutong first.Oh~I think it was very relaxing.Then I went to the Palace Museum. It was great but very crowded and boring.In the evening,I ate the Sichuan food for dinner.It was very delicious! ……
I think the summer vacation was very good!
你好,每个人!你想知道任何关于我的假期吗?现在让我来告诉你!我有一个非常激动人心的假期。我去了北京。有许多特别的地方。例如,胡同,故宫博物馆,儿童的宫殿和更多。首先我去了胡同。哦~我认为这是非常放松。然后我去了故宫博物院。这是伟大的但非常拥挤和乏味。在晚上,我吃了四川菜,准备做晚饭。这是非常美味!……
我认为暑假是非常好的!
Before I always don't like reading, every time my mother told me to read a book I was perfunctory, the teacher told me to read that is compelling.clients, classmate called me to read more goofing off. But this summer vacation I began to like reading books.
今天，一早来到学校我就在走廊上排好了队，为什么排队呢？那是因为今天我们要到四楼会议室去录课，而且这次录课非同一般，这次我们录的是英语课。
虽然以前我去录过课，但是都是语文啊！而这次是英语，我怎么知道要录什么？况且我这还是第一次去呢！不过还好在星期一的时候，英语老师让我们下午留在学校给我们讲了讲流程和内容。讲了四五十分钟才讲完，最后走的时候老师给我们说了要带的东西――图画本、记号笔、黑色水笔。因此，我们还是有些把握的。等人到齐后，我们30个人就像向议室出发了，在此之间，我一直想象着这次录课到底是什么样的？因为距离很*，所以我们很快就到了。但是，在我的记忆中我也是好像不是在这里啊！就是老师打开了门，原来在会议室讲台的墙壁右边有一扇暗门啊！我来了这么多次会议室都没有发现，肯定是因为这里挂了窗帘。更让我大吃一惊的是，我们竟然要坐在讲台上听老师讲课，我原本想着是坐在下面的椅子上的呢！我们找位置坐下后，老师又再次强调的一定要积极回答问题！确认好位置后，我们又从那扇暗门穿过，到候场区等待了。可是，让我想不到的是，我们就这样等了整整一节课，我们有些着急了，心想：“为什么等一节课还没有开始？”在等待的时候，老师还把我们讲课时要用的书发了，名字叫《山姆不爱动》，我们也只能看看书来消磨时光了。第二节上课铃打响时，终于开始了！
但是，当我们走上台的时候，看到的一幕让我们所有人震惊。那就是教室里竟然坐满了老师，原来刚才我们是在那儿等老师们等齐了啊！这让气氛瞬间紧张么起来，我们所有人的表情都变得严肃了。不过还好老师活跃了气氛，她笑嘻嘻地打招呼，上课时也总带着微笑。这让我们放松多了，只要不看下面的老师们，只看着老师了就和*常上课没两样。我们先练*了元音字母的发音，还学了一些新单词，就开始进入了我们这节课的主题《山姆不爱动》。虽然非常简单，但是我们还是认认真真学*，老师也非常认真的对待。这让我们在学*英语的时候，变得非常快乐。在学*这课的时候，老师还问我们，文中的山姆是怎么站起来的？回答的答案每个都不一样，但是最让我印象深刻的就是其中一位同学说：“他的好朋友在地上扔了一张钱，然后说这是谁掉的钱？”顿时，老师和同学们笑开了花。学完了这课后，老师还让我们上台表演这个故事呢！非常有趣，非常欢乐。最后，老师还问我们在这个故事中我们得到了哪些启示，也可以用中文说。同学们都说：“看到朋友不开心的时候，我们应该积极帮助或安慰他，让他不再伤心。”
这节英语课，真是与众不同啊！不仅让我们觉得英语学起来很有趣，还教会了我们帮助别人。啊！这节英语课真是特别啊！
那天是星期四的早上我一到教室便发现英语老师已经站在了讲台上，给我们每组传递小狗的图片，看来今天的英语课有好戏看啦！我一下兴奋起来。
The spring, the village road, the road on both sides of the trees, flowers flourish to open, the flowers like snow white, the flowers as red as fire, the sun red cross Ying, very beautiful. The stream rushing forward, with a stream of grass and wildflowers dotted, make the stream more clear, more beautiful!
Spring is coming, and everything is reviving.
The thawed stream is Dingding in winter and the withered grass is turning green. There are many flowers in spring, including jasmine, Magnolia, Rhododendron All the hibernating animals woke up and the geese flew back from the south. The children put on their spring clothes and fly kites together outside.
Spring is so beautiful. I like spring!
Spring girl came to us with a beautiful dance. With a magic wand, the whole world turned green.
Dumpling is a traditional Chinese food. On the lunar New Year' s Day, most families usually eat delicious dumplings to celebrate their family reunion.
To make Dumpling , follow this easy process.The first step is to mix the flour with water. When the dough is ready, we can begin to make dumpling wrappers. We use a rolling pole to roll the dough into small, thin and round pieces so that they will be easy to cook. When the wrappers are done, it' s time to prepare the filling. Usually, we use meat such as beef or mutton, and some vegetables such as cabbage or carrots for filling. You may actually choose whatever you like to put into it. We must chop those things into small pieces. Then put some salt, oil and other condiments into it and stir it evenly. When all these preparations are done, we can start making dumplings. First put a spoonful of filling in the center of the wrapper. Then stick the two opposite sides together and then the rest. Don' t just cover the filling with the wrappers. The best shape of dumplings is that of a ship, because when they are boiling in the pan, they look like ships sailing in the sea. The smell can make your mouth water.
In our country, there are plenty of delicious foods. They are popular among Chinese people. I like eating very much. There are many food I like, such as chicken, fish, beef, tofu, noodle and so on. Among them, fish and tofu are the food I like most. Fish is delicious as well asrich in nutrition. It's good to our health. There are various cooking methods and I think the simplest way is the best one. Tofu is my favorite as well. It can be cooked with many other dishes. Different tastes combine with each other to make the food more delicious.
我的家乡有很多好吃的食物。*人都很喜欢吃这些食物。我也很喜欢吃。我喜欢的食物有很多，比如鸡肉，鱼肉，牛肉，豆腐，面条等等。鱼肉好吃并且含有丰富的营养，对我们的健康很有好处。有很多种烹饪方式，我认为最简单的方式就是最好的方式。豆腐也是我喜欢的.食物。它可以和很多其他种类的菜一起烹饪。不同口味相互结合能够使食物更美味。
My favourite food is cake.because it is very delicious.Although cake is very sweetit looks very beautiful.On my birthdaymy mother bought a cake for me.L'm very happy.There are some things on the cake.For example some fruit and some chocolate .l also like chocolate very much .Cake is my favourite
I have a nice grandfather. He is eighty years old. Although he is eighty years old, his body is still in good condition. He likes to listen to Beijing Opera. He often goes to do exercise, so many people ask him about Opera.
He has a nice wife that is my grandmother. Grandfather is a good husband, and also is my good grandfather. His favorite color is red, because he thinks red stands for joyousness. I love my grandfather forever.
我有一个好爷爷，他八十岁了。虽然他已经八十岁了，但是他的身体很好。他喜欢听京剧，他经常去锻炼，所以很多人会去问他关于这些方面的东西。
他有一个好妻子，就是我的奶奶。他是个好丈夫，也是我的好爷爷。他最喜欢的颜色是红色，因为他觉得红色代表喜庆。我永远爱我的爷爷。
我们班有一位男英语老师，他在我们班二年级来到我们班教我们英语，一看是一位男老师，一定是非常凶。一上男老师的课就是要小心翼翼不让英语老师生气，一上才知道英语老师一点都不凶。而且每一次都计分数，哪一大组的分高就给贴纸，15个贴纸换一封表扬信。
在三大科目中，我最闹心的就是英语了。这个讨厌的家伙，在我小学二年级的时候，就闯进了我的生活。别的孩子都是三年级学英语的，可是，我的妈妈却提早了一年，安排我上了“超越”英语补*班。
开始上的时候，我并不很排斥它，甚至有点喜欢。可是，好景不长，从四年级的时候，要背的单词和句型就日渐增多，我对英语也就越来越烦。这种情绪导致我的英语成绩直线下降。从此，我和英语的关系进入了冰冻期，英语被列进了我的黑名单。
带着这份黑名单，我步入了初中。现在，我对英语的感觉依旧非常厌恶。有时候甚至想把英语书给烧了。
今天，我终于明白了：我把英语当成敌人是完全错误的。想想，英语这门学科是教育部规定要学的。我又怎能不学它呢？
如果我们在心理上很排斥它，那么，它也会排斥你。所以，我们要学好一样东西，一个重要的前提就是，以愉快的`心理去接收它。你只有把它当成朋友，它才能走进我们的心里。所以，想以一种厌恶它的心理去学*它，是一个超级笑话。
妈妈，不要再打我了-SparetheRod,Mom
我妈妈对我非常严格，她几乎让我把所有的.时间都用于学*。如果我在考试中得了高分，她就奖励我。但每当我考得不好的时候优秀作文 专注写作 ，她便小棍子伺候。她的教育哲学就是“孩子不打不成器”。可我确实知道学*的重要性。妈妈，总是那样惩罚我不会有任何好的效果，那只能扼杀我学*的兴趣。你能理解么，妈妈?
My mom is strict with me very much. She makes me study almost all the time. When I get high marks in the exam, she awards me. But when I get low marks, she beats me. She only knows, "spare the rod and spoil the child." But I do know the importance of study. To always punish me that way can do no good, mom. It can only kill my interests in studying. Can you understand, mom?
I have a beautiful mom, my mom's eyes sparkling, still big. Eyebrows are Liuye eyebrows, mouth is very long, very high nose, face is always flushed.
Once, I just came home and saw my mother being wiping the glass. She first opened the faucet, and then took a towel to dip some water. Then, when she touched, put the faucet off. Began to wipe the glass, and her waist like a pencil just standing where the hand holding a towel waving. Eyes staring at the glass, and suddenly she found a piece of black on the glass. She thought: who is doing it? Do not talk about health, then, my mother would like to come up with a good way.
Time is very fast, the whole summer life has long gone, and now, I have in the classroom, the second day of study and life.
Memories of the whole summer vacation, the day was very dull, only know that the day hurried past, and rush to come, one-third of the summer vacation, used in the operation, however, the remaining two-thirds , Get rid of one day I went to Changzhou dinosaur park, other days, what am I doing? In the plain boring summer vacation, day by day in the past, I just repeat the sleep, reading, watching TV. Every day, I just stay at home, because I really is nothing to do, except for a week of saxophone class, almost homes.
Wake up from the morning to enter a state that can be said to be idle, I feel the time past a hurry, I suddenly want to seize the time, so I started the whole half of the whole day to read, however, when The next day the sun once again shot in my bed, I remember yesterday I did, but, when I did not do anything because of yesterdays silence, the time again and again ran by , I have not prepared to catch the time to run, can not catch the time came, because I have been too dull days, I did not set up every day, and then recall the whole July, what I did in the end, However, all things are very vague.
The first day of August is on schedule, and I am fortunate that in late August I want the Saxophone rating, because it is my only summer vacation, the only meaningful hope, I finally got one more thing every day, Practice blowing saxophone.
But the day is still hurry to live, I just sit at home every day watching the shadow of the scene from long to short, and from short to long, until the end, completely sunk into the shady, and then the next day the sun Of the rise and fall, so the whole of August is also gone through the vanity of all day.
耶！今天，我又拿了第一。
记得第一次上课默写单词的.时候，我只打了80分，是全班最后一名。我感到很惭愧，为此李老师还和我谈过话，让我发奋努力超过他们。我自己也在心里暗暗地发誓，一定要努力，争取拿第一。
从这以后，老师只要求抄写的，我把它抄得全能默写出来；老师要求得读熟的课文，我把它读得能背下来，还能背得滚瓜烂熟，已至于别的同学读都没我背得流利；老师要求造5个句子，我把它翻倍，造10个句子。总之，每次我都比老师更严格要求自己。所以，到了第二次上课，读，听，背，写，我都是全班第一了。
为此，李老师为了激力其他的同学，在班上宣布：只要谁赶上或超过了我，就翻倍奖励小盾牌。可是，李老师却在背地里三翻五次的告诫我说："你一定要更加努力，不要停步不前，这样他们会很容易赶上你的。"
听了李老师的话后，我也就更加发奋了。因此，到现在为止，我一直保持着第一的这个位子。
