Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的'人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的`注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的'注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的`都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the house.Does marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.
现在，当一对情侣结婚，他们第一件事就是凑够钱去买房子。在*，婚姻似乎意味着房子，据报道，一对新婚夫妇离婚，原因在于他们的父母弄不清谁是房子的`合法人。婚姻必须加上房子吗？我不这样认为。
It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.
当人们结婚，他们必须要有房子，这是很正常的，这因为房子给夫妇带来安全感。有房子意味着他们安定，即使工作上被开除，也不用担心住哪里。人们有他们的安全感归因于房子。婚姻也带来安全感，所以人们觉得房子是必须的。
We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.
我们要看到这样的事实，今天人们赋予房子太多的情感。有时候他们甚至为房子而结婚，真爱的价值被扭曲，人们不再把爱放在第一位上，他们把房子看成最重要的东西。所以如果两个男孩追一个女孩，毫无疑问，有房子的那个男生赢了。这是多么可怕的事情埃
On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.
在我看来，真爱跟房子没有关系，婚姻是在爱的基础上，房子不是婚姻的必需品。
——婚姻英语作文 (菁华10篇)
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的'人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的'， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的`灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的.都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的.时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的.密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the house.Does marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.
现在，当一对情侣结婚，他们第一件事就是凑够钱去买房子。在*，婚姻似乎意味着房子，据报道，一对新婚夫妇离婚，原因在于他们的.父母弄不清谁是房子的合法人。婚姻必须加上房子吗？我不这样认为。
It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.
当人们结婚，他们必须要有房子，这是很正常的，这因为房子给夫妇带来安全感。有房子意味着他们安定，即使工作上被开除，也不用担心住哪里。人们有他们的安全感归因于房子。婚姻也带来安全感，所以人们觉得房子是必须的。
We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.
我们要看到这样的事实，今天人们赋予房子太多的情感。有时候他们甚至为房子而结婚，真爱的价值被扭曲，人们不再把爱放在第一位上，他们把房子看成最重要的东西。所以如果两个男孩追一个女孩，毫无疑问，有房子的那个男生赢了。这是多么可怕的事情埃
On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.
在我看来，真爱跟房子没有关系，婚姻是在爱的基础上，房子不是婚姻的必需品。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的'缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的.秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的`茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
——婚姻英语作文 (菁华9篇)
you are asking, is it possible to be married and to be free?
if you take marriage non-seriously, then you can be free. if you take it seriously, then freedom is impossible. take marriage just as a game -- it is a game. have a little sense of humor, that it is a role you are playing on the stage of life; but it is not something that belongs to existence or has any reality -- it is a fiction.but people are so stupid that they even start taking fiction for reality. i have seen people reading fiction with tears in their eyes, because in the fiction things are going so tragically. it is a very good device in the movies that they put the lights off, so everybody can enjoy the movie, laugh, cry, be sad, be happy.
if there was light it would be a little difficult -- what will others think? and they know perfectly well that the screen is empty -- there is nobody; it is just a projected picture. but they forget it completely.and the same has happened with our lives. many things which are sim* to be taken humorously, we take so seriously -- and from that seriousness begins our problem.in the first place, why should you get married? you love someone, live with someone -- it is part of your basic rights. you can live with someone, you can love someone.
marriage is not something that happens in heaven, it happens here, through the crafty priests. but if you want to join the game with society and dont want to stand alone and aloof, you make it clear to your wife or to your husband that this marriage is just a game: never take it seriously. i will remain as independent as i was before marriage, and you will remain as independent as you were before marriage. neither i am going to interfere in your life, nor are you going to interfere in my life; we will live as two friends together, sharing our joys, sharing our freedom -- but not becoming a burden on each other.and any moment we feel that the spring has passed, the honeymoon is over, we will be sincere enough not to go on pretending, but to say to each other that we loved much -- and we will remain grateful to each other forever, and the days of love will haunt us in our memories, in our dreams, as golden -- but the spring is over.our paths have come to a point, where although it is sad, we have to part, because now, living together is not a sign of love. if i love you, i will leave you the moment i see my love has become a misery to you. if you love me, you will leave me the moment you see that your love is creating an imprisonment for me.
Different people have various viewpoints toward marriage cause they have different roles and stands.QianZhongshu,an eminent writer who prefaces his book A Surrounded City with ‘Marriage is a surrounded city which people encircled want to flee from while those who stand out the city are eager to step into’. However,Jane Austen started her book Pride and Prejudice with ‘It is a truth universally
acknowledged that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife’.
In my point of view,marriage is a warm harbour in which we can seek shelter,it is also a destination of our life voyage after we leave parents’home or we are no longer under the protection of our parents.
So we must choose marriage cautiously and then try our best to make a perfect place where we can live happily with another person.However,we can’t manage it on our own without cooperating with him. In other words,choosing a marriage means choosing a person to live with.In consequence,we should choose the husband cautiously.
As for me,first,my husband must show his parents filial obedience.Parents are those who love us best.How dare we expect he loves us if a person even treats his parents illI believe there is love existing between man and woman,while I believe in the
emotion which can be developed after living together a long time in marriage.A man can fall in love with his wife momentarily,but only when he regards his wife as a real family member can his love lasts longer.Seldom a man can endure the marriage with a woman when he is not love her any more or even hate her.However,there is enough space for manoeuvers if a man treat his wife as an indispensable family member.Second, a husband should have strong responsibilities.A man with strong
responsibilities is reliable.On one hand,he will work hard to make us happy.On the other hand,he may do not anything that will hurt his wife.Maybe,most of the men are fond of the new and tired of the old,but a man who has strong responsibilities will make his mind rather his emotion control his behaviour.
Last but not least,a husband should have similar outlook on life and value with his wife.Because it is a horrible thing to live an entire life with a person whom we have nothing to talk with.
Now let talk about the protagnists in the Nettle.To tell the truth,I don’t like the woman in it.I don’t blame her for leaving a person whom she doesn’t want to live with.I do blame her for leaving her family.She just moves out and almost keeps no connection with her husband.They can get together to cope with their
marriage.Though their marriage is too far gone, they can still be good friends.And also I hate that she hope an affair with Mike.Much as she loves Mike,she shouldn’t break a whole family at another poor woman’s cost.She can take Mike as a close friend or a brother whom can exchange life and work experience.
Fortunately,they don’t lose their mind and do something that will hurt others.Of course it is a pity that they don’t meet each other any more.
Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the house.Does marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.
现在，当一对情侣结婚，他们第一件事就是凑够钱去买房子。在*，婚姻似乎意味着房子，据报道，一对新婚夫妇离婚，原因在于他们的父母弄不清谁是房子的合法人。婚姻必须加上房子吗？我不这样认为。
It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.
当人们结婚，他们必须要有房子，这是很正常的，这因为房子给夫妇带来安全感。有房子意味着他们安定，即使工作上被开除，也不用担心住哪里。人们有他们的安全感归因于房子。婚姻也带来安全感，所以人们觉得房子是必须的`。
We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.
我们要看到这样的事实，今天人们赋予房子太多的情感。有时候他们甚至为房子而结婚，真爱的价值被扭曲，人们不再把爱放在第一位上，他们把房子看成最重要的东西。所以如果两个男孩追一个女孩，毫无疑问，有房子的那个男生赢了。这是多么可怕的事情埃
On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.
在我看来，真爱跟房子没有关系，婚姻是在爱的基础上，房子不是婚姻的必需品。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的.缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的.孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the house.Does marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.
现在，当一对情侣结婚，他们第一件事就是凑够钱去买房子。在*，婚姻似乎意味着房子，据报道，一对新婚夫妇离婚，原因在于他们的父母弄不清谁是房子的合法人。婚姻必须加上房子吗？我不这样认为。
It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.
当人们结婚，他们必须要有房子，这是很正常的，这因为房子给夫妇带来安全感。有房子意味着他们安定，即使工作上被开除，也不用担心住哪里。人们有他们的安全感归因于房子。婚姻也带来安全感，所以人们觉得房子是必须的。
We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.
我们要看到这样的事实，今天人们赋予房子太多的情感。有时候他们甚至为房子而结婚，真爱的价值被扭曲，人们不再把爱放在第一位上，他们把房子看成最重要的东西。所以如果两个男孩追一个女孩，毫无疑问，有房子的那个男生赢了。这是多么可怕的事情埃
On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.
在我看来，真爱跟房子没有关系，婚姻是在爱的基础上，房子不是婚姻的`必需品。
Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the house.Does marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.
现在，当一对情侣结婚，他们第一件事就是凑够钱去买房子。在*，婚姻似乎意味着房子，据报道，一对新婚夫妇离婚，原因在于他们的父母弄不清谁是房子的合法人。婚姻必须加上房子吗？我不这样认为。
It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.
当人们结婚，他们必须要有房子，这是很正常的，这因为房子给夫妇带来安全感。有房子意味着他们安定，即使工作上被开除，也不用担心住哪里。人们有他们的安全感归因于房子。婚姻也带来安全感，所以人们觉得房子是必须的。
We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.
我们要看到这样的事实，今天人们赋予房子太多的情感。有时候他们甚至为房子而结婚，真爱的价值被扭曲，人们不再把爱放在第一位上，他们把房子看成最重要的东西。所以如果两个男孩追一个女孩，毫无疑问，有房子的那个男生赢了。这是多么可怕的'事情埃
On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.
在我看来，真爱跟房子没有关系，婚姻是在爱的基础上，房子不是婚姻的必需品。
Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the house.Does marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.
现在，当一对情侣结婚，他们第一件事就是凑够钱去买房子。在*，婚姻似乎意味着房子，据报道，一对新婚夫妇离婚，原因在于他们的父母弄不清谁是房子的合法人。婚姻必须加上房子吗？我不这样认为。
It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.
当人们结婚，他们必须要有房子，这是很正常的，这因为房子给夫妇带来安全感。有房子意味着他们安定，即使工作上被开除，也不用担心住哪里。人们有他们的安全感归因于房子。婚姻也带来安全感，所以人们觉得房子是必须的。
We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.
我们要看到这样的事实，今天人们赋予房子太多的情感。有时候他们甚至为房子而结婚，真爱的.价值被扭曲，人们不再把爱放在第一位上，他们把房子看成最重要的东西。所以如果两个男孩追一个女孩，毫无疑问，有房子的那个男生赢了。这是多么可怕的事情埃
On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.
在我看来，真爱跟房子没有关系，婚姻是在爱的基础上，房子不是婚姻的必需品。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的'生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
——婚姻英语作文 (菁华9篇)
is getting married one of the keys to a happy life? a 20xx report from the pew research center suggests so—43 percent of married women and men reported being “very happy,” while only 24 percent of unmarried men and women said the same.
interestingly enough, the happy halo that shines over married couples isn't the result of having kids—those with children were just as likely to be happy as those without.rather, there seems to be something about marriage itself that boosts both men's and women's feelings of well—being in life.
“recent research suggests that people become less depressed and less lonely after they get married,” says linda waite, a sociology professor at the university of chicago and author of the case for marriage.after all, it's harder to be lonely when you've got a loved one to come home to every night.according to waite, men benefit even more than women from having a life-long companion. “women will talk to everyone,” says waite, “but most men tend to rely on their wives as their main confidant.”in addition, women-typically the social planners in a relationship—ensure that the men stay connected to family and friends, another source of happiness.
and what about all that nagging that wives are so famous for? turns out it pays off. men who are married drink less, smoke less, eat better, get more sleep, and engage in less risky behavior than their unmarried peers. the end result: married men are healthier, and since health is linked to happiness, they're happier too.
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
You are asking, "Is it possible to be married and to be free?"
If you take marriage non-seriously, then you can be free. If you take it seriously, then freedom is impossible. Take marriage just as a game -- it is a game. Have a little sense of humor, that it is a role you are playing on the stage of life; but it is not something that belongs to existence or has any reality -- it is a fiction.But people are so stupid that they even start taking fiction for reality. I have seen people reading fiction with tears in their eyes, because in the fiction things are going so tragically. It is a very good device in the movies that they put the lights off, so everybody can enjoy the movie, laugh, cry, be sad, be happy.
If there was light it would be a little difficult -- what will others think? And they know perfectly well that the screen is empty -- there is nobody; it is just a projected picture. But they forget it completely.And the same has happened with our lives. Many things which are sim* to be taken humorously, we take so seriously -- and from that seriousness begins our problem.In the first place, why should you get married? You love someone, live with someone -- it is part of your basic rights. You can live with someone, you can love someone.
Marriage is not something that happens in heaven, it happens here, through the crafty priests. But if you want to join the game with society and don‘t want to stand alone and aloof, you make it clear to your wife or to your husband that this marriage is just a game:"Never take it seriously. I will remain as independent as I was before marriage, and you will remain as independent as you were before marriage. Neither I am going to interfere in your life, nor are you going to interfere in my life; we will live as two friends together, sharing our joys, sharing our freedom -- but not becoming a burden on each other.And any moment we feel that the spring has passed, the honeymoon is over, we will be sincere enough not to go on pretending, but to say to each other that we loved much -- and we will remain grateful to each other forever, and the days of love will haunt us in our memories, in our dreams, as golden -- but the spring is over.Our paths have come to a point, where although it is sad, we have to part, because now, living together is not a sign of love. If I love you, I will leave you the moment I see my love has become a misery to you. If you love me, you will leave me the moment you see that your love is creating an imprisonment for me."
Love is the highest value in life: It should not be reduced to stupid rituals. And love and freedom go together -- you cannot choose one and leave the other. A man who knows freedom is full of love, and a man who knows love is always willing to give freedom.If you cannot give freedom to the person you love, to whom can you give freedom? Giving freedom is nothing but trusting. Freedom is an expression of love.So whether you are married or not, remember, all marriages are fake -- just social conveniences. Their purpose is not to imprison you and bind you to each other; their purpose is to help you to grow with each other. But growth needs freedom; and in the past, all the cultures have forgotten that without freedom, love dies.You see a bird on the wing in the sun, in the sky, and it looks so beautiful. Attracted by its beauty, you can catch the bird and put it in a golden cage.Do you think it is the same bird? Superficially, yes, it is the same bird who was flying in the sky; but deep down it is not the same bird -- because where is its sky, where is its freedom?
This golden cage may be valuable to you; it is not valuable to the bird. For the bird, to be free in the sky is the only valuable thing in life. And the same is true about human beings.
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"Ill start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes.
"Whats wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then well talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I dont have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I dont want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldnt want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We dont really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的'失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的`灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的`突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的`时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的'路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的.爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
——婚姻承诺书 (菁华6篇)
我们夫妻双方承诺：现无子女（含未收养子女），且无其它重要婚育情况遗漏，向 乡镇、街道计生办提供的相关信息和资料真实有效，符合生育第一个子女政策，现申请办理一孩《生育服务证》。如本人承诺内容与实际不符，由此产生的一切违法行为和后果，愿意按照相关法律法规接受处理。如有不符，愿承担法律责任。
承诺人（妻子）：
承诺人（丈夫）：
承诺时间： 年 月 日
我们夫妻双方承诺：现无子女（含未收养子女），且无其它重要婚育情况遗漏，向 乡镇、街道计生办提供的'相关信息和资料真实有效，符合生育第一个子女政策，现申请办理一孩《生育服务证》。如本人承诺内容与实际不符，由此产生的一切违法行为和后果，愿意按照相关法律法规接受处理。如有不符，愿承担法律责任。
承诺人（妻子）：
承诺人（丈夫）：
承诺时间： 年 月 日
尊敬的亲爱的老婆：
由于我自控能力差，脾气又不好，在这次的事情中没有听你的`劝告，还失去理智般动手打了你，最后还误解了你。致使你感到伤心，绝望。眼看着家庭就要解体。突然领悟到你对我的重要，你对我们孩子健康、快乐成长的重要，你对这个家庭的重要。我现在深深认识到，保持这个家的完整性对我是多么的重要。
一、我坚决保证做到对老婆好，不做对不起老婆的事，不欺骗老婆，无论如何都不能有对老婆产生非打即骂的心理，不得以暴力相要挟，更不得动手打老婆。不能以恶毒言语中伤老婆。
二、坚决保证做到对老婆不能小肚鸡肠，要放心，宽心，能容忍。
三、坚决保证逐渐减少赌博，不在自己的店里、家里打牌赌博。
保证人：
亲爱的老婆：
记不得这是咱们第多少次争吵了。详细回忆起来也不清楚到底是因为什么争吵起来的了，大致的每次争吵都是如此。现在回想：06年最后一天的晚上咱们一直都聊的很开心的样子，后来老婆去洗漱，我等宝贝儿，宝贝儿回来了，在收拾一下，这个时候语音是开着的，我听到宝贝儿的动作，大声地喊宝贝儿，说好听的，宝贝儿用的耳塞，没有听到我说话。后来宝贝儿收拾好了，这时我有些失望不开心了，宝贝儿说好听的话安慰我，后来??后来，宝贝儿生气了，我没有安慰宝贝儿，再后来，我一个人生闷气，越生越多，说话也越来越难听，直至说出分手的话，这次说得很难听，然后就是两天没有理宝贝儿，今晚又发过去短信要跟宝贝儿一辈子过不去的流氓言语。
亲爱的，基于我的野蛮的.流氓行径，首先做如下检讨：
一、 争吵起因的避免：我最初的不开心源于对宝贝儿大声地说话，宝贝儿不能听到，这完全是在可预料的情形下的。
二、 争吵扩大的避免：其实就算当时产生了不开心倒也不至于争吵加剧，如果能够及时挽回，采取适当而必要有效的手段，完全能够化险为夷的，生气了，不开心了，应该及时甜言蜜语讨好宝贝儿，并给与宝贝儿更好的许诺，必要时可以以物质为诱饵来博取美人芳心，赢美人开怀一笑，正所谓江湖对于如上六点错误，列举如下对应策略加以避免：
二、 无论何时在何种情况下，都不应对宝贝儿冷言冷语，更不能不理不睬，宝贝儿说话要陪宝贝儿说话，比宝贝儿说更多的话，宝贝儿不说话要想办法逗宝贝儿说话。宝贝儿开心要陪宝贝儿一起开心，让宝贝儿更开心，宝贝儿不开心，要千方百计哄宝贝儿开心。
三、 高压线触不得，要以给张静老婆当牛做马为荣誉，不得有不满情绪，更不许说想叛逃宝贝儿的话。
四、 无论如何都不能有对宝贝儿打击报复的心理，不得以暴力相要挟，不得产生以武力解决问题的想法，心里意淫也不可以。
五、 以后一定做到争吵不过夜，不记仇，不赌气，心里有不快要及时说出来，不得在心里积压埋伏并伺机发泄，不得寻找任何借口向宝贝儿发泄，不存心惹宝贝儿生气跟宝贝儿过不去。
六、 早晨起床要问候宝贝儿，如果宝贝儿睡意尚浓，要甜言蜜语哄宝贝儿起床，并辅以早睡早起，坚持吃早饭的道理，不得怠慢。
七、 对宝贝儿忠贞，要做到不单独约其他女生出游聚餐等暧昧活动，不讲笑话讨好其他女生，不在宝贝儿面前评论其他女生，不盯着看其他女生。时常在别人面前夸宝贝儿，要跟自己熟识的朋友同学介绍我已经有女朋友。不得有非分之想。
八、 看到别的男生怎么疼爱他的女朋友，要多向别人学*，比别人做得更好，要时时记得宝贝儿，有什么好事要想着宝贝儿。
九、 生日及各种节日要特别问候，要有精美礼物，礼物一定要独特，不许落入俗套，别出心裁。【老公给老婆的保证书范文】老公给老婆的保证书范文。礼物要及时送达，逢生日情人节或重大节日，礼物要提前准备好，不得有搪塞应付之嫌疑。
您亲爱的老公
二0xx年元月四日凌晨
鉴于_____同意辞职回家全新全意找照顾女儿____，为表明_____(以下简称“承诺人”)妻子和女儿真切的爱以及承担家庭责任的决心，承诺人不可撤销的做出如此承诺：
一、在承诺人和_______的婚姻关系存续期间，由承诺人支付家庭生活的一切开销及女儿____的全部抚养费费。
二、夫妻共同财产应当交由_______保管和支配，包括但不限于承诺人的工资、薪金所得、生产经营收益以及其他依法属于承诺人与_______共同所有的财产，承诺人应当主动将上述财产交付_______，如需使用应当说明理由，若_______认为理由不成立的，可以拒绝。
三、承诺人在夫妻关系存续期间应当遵守下列准则：
1.不得出入**场所及沉迷赌博。
2.不得与妻子或家人以外的异性有过分，及不必要的亲昵举动。
3.不可做出伤害妻子的行为，包括心理上和生理上。
4.承诺人需让妻子知道行踪，丈夫在任何时刻，均不能与妻子失去联系。不得无辜失踪陆x时以上。
5.承诺人不可无辜夜不归宿，如有特殊情况必须得到妻子许可。
三、若承诺人与_______离婚，不论是否由于承诺人的过错导致，承诺人愿意放弃分割夫妻共同财产的权利以及女儿____的.抚养权，承诺人与_______在婚姻关系存续期间所得财产，将全部由_______取得。
四、在夫妻关系存续期间，承诺人不可做出任何伤害_______的行为，包括精神及肉体层面，绝对不允许发生任何家庭暴力行为，如违反本条守则，承诺人愿意赔偿_______人民币壹佰万元。
五、本承诺书自承诺人签字之日起生效，一式壹份，由_______保管。
承诺人：XXX
XXX年XX月XX日
尊敬的岳父岳母、亲爱的大舅哥、小姨子、全体来宾、我最最爱的老婆：
今天，我向你们保证：从今以后我一定做一名合格的现代好男人、好丈夫，坚决做到“三从” 、“四德” 、“五保证”之标准。
三从即：
媳妇上街一定跟从
媳妇命令一定服从
媳妇错了一定盲从
四德即：
媳妇花钱——舍得
媳妇化妆——等得
媳妇打骂——忍得
媳妇生日——记得
五保证：
一、下班后买菜做饭；
二、饭后刷锅洗碗；
三、周末不看电视，主动洗衣服、擦地板；
四、挣钱全部上交，坚决不留私房钱；
五、错了主动跪搓板
以上是我的承诺和保证，希望岳父岳母和所有来宾朋友们监督执行！
决心人：xxx
监督人：xxx
xxxx年xx月xx日
——婚姻协议书 (菁华5篇)
甲方：
乙方：
根据国家有关法律法规，甲乙自愿结成婚姻关系，并就有关事宜协商一致，订立本协议。
第一条 财产
(一)甲、乙所得财产均为个人财产，不得归为共同所有。个人财产包括婚姻关系存续期间所得工资、奖金，生产、经营收益，知识产权收益，继承、受赠财产、房屋、房屋增值部分及其他财产。
(二)位于 房屋内财产均为甲方所有;位于 房屋内财产均为乙方所有。并以法律公证。
(三)除上述财产外，收益人、购买人为财产所有人。财产权属难以确认的，以财产所有权证确认权利人，财产权证未具名的，如无其他证据证明，权证持有人为该财产所有权人。
(四)如基于甲(乙)方原因，双方共同继承或受赠第三人财产的，乙(甲)方须放弃权利主张，所得财产全部归甲(乙)方所有。
第二条 费用
(一)甲、乙分别承担本人、本人亲属及其他与自身相关联的费用，不得涉及另一方任何费用支出。甲乙双方协商解决的除外。
(二)甲、乙双方未经协商单方生养或领养子女，由生养或领养方承担一切费用及法律责任、法律义务。 由于单方原因需采取与他人人工**方式受孕的，所有费用及法律责任由受孕行为人单独承担。子女生活、教育、医疗及其他费用，也由受孕行为人单独承 担。另一方有义务协助孩子的一切抚养事项。(此事项依据《形婚后孩子的生育抚养协议》执行。) 如单方选择领养方式，有关事宜应参照前款。
(三)财产的修缮、维护由财产所有权人负责，有关费用及衍生费用由财产所有权人承担。
(四)结婚期间费用，一些不可避免的费用，由甲乙双方协议分摊。
第三条 债务
(一)婚姻关系存续期间，因甲或乙单方行为产生的任何债务均不得归为共同债务，共同债务必须有甲乙双方签字认可的书面证明。
(二)个人债务仅以负债方所有财产为限清偿，不得涉及另一方财产。因一方负债致另一方财产损失的，负债方应予赔偿。
(三)债权债务关系形成前，负债方应将上述债务约定告知债权人或第三人，债权人或第三人以不知该约定为由要求甲乙共同偿还，并致另一方损失的，负债方应予赔偿。
第四条 继承及受益
(一)甲、乙均承诺自愿放弃对另一方及其亲属财产或权益的继承权，对另一方处置个人财产及权益行为无任何异议。
(二)甲、乙或第三人为其中一方购买保险的，投保人或被保险人有权确定保险受益人，未约定受益人、受益人约定不明或因其他原因引起纠纷的，应依照被保险人意愿确定受益人。甲或乙中可能的受益人应自动放弃受益，由被保险人直系亲属所有。
(三)甲或乙一方基于婚姻关系受益，并可能导致另一方既得利益或预期利益损失的，受益方应在受益财产数额以内予以合理补偿。
第五条 行为
(一)甲乙双方在婚姻存续期间生活彼此独立、互不干涉。婚后，双方各自管理自己房门钥匙，以避免无必要的干涉。
(二)甲乙婚姻关系存续期间为无性婚姻，如甲(乙)单方违反规定，甲(乙)承担一切相关法律责任。
(三)甲(乙)方在婚姻期间如发生意外，乙(甲)方不承担抚养义务。
(四)甲乙双方应相互体谅，谨言慎行，避免给另一方造成不必要的压力和伤害。
(五)由乙方主观原因或乙方无故主动提出造成离婚，乙方要支付孩子的抚养费用不低于30%。同时享有一周至少一次的探望权利。
(六)非乙方主观原因造成离婚，或由甲方无故提出离婚的，甲方需按需负责孩子抚养费用不少于85%。并享有至少一周一次的探望权利。
第六条 补充条列
(一)结婚的初衷，双方任何时候都必须保密，无论任何情况下，都不能告知对方家长及让对方家长知晓。如为某一方泄密而导致婚姻失败不得不离婚的，该方应无条件赔偿对方名誉损失50000元人民币。如因单方的泄密导致对方家长精神大受打击而导致身体状况发生较大的不良影响的，泄密方负有一半的医疗责任。
(二)如*时过年过节双方在对方家中做客或探亲时所收受的红包，因金额较少，不归还对方属合情合理。其中一方探望对方家长或亲戚时的来回车费及住宿问题，应独自承担，而送给对方家人的礼物，原则上一两百的由送礼方独自承担则可，但如超五百元以上的，则应由双方分摊。而跟对方家长见面交代时，为照顾彼此面子，应说礼物是对方准备的，不能说是自己准备的。
(三)有关婚礼，原则上一切从简。婚纱照及男方家里的订婚酒*可免，蜜月旅游可免。但男方应按照女方当地的*俗交付一定金额的礼金给予女方/女方家长。具体数额，双方协议解决。
(四)婚后居住问题，经协商： 不可以无辜打搅对方生活。
(五)双方老人的赡养，主要经济责任归各自处理，夫妻双方均有责任以及义务在适当而必要的(日子)时期或者特别的节假日与对方一起探望对方的家人，尤其 对方的父母。*均一年最少3次。双方都应本着孝敬老人的思想尽力为对方以及父母做出应有的贡献，如探望以及照顾。
(六)如婚后其中一方本人或其家人出现意外的疾病或事故需要对方的经济上的支援的，对方应尽力所能及的经济支援或物质支援以及必要且应该的慰问及安抚(如对方亲属生病住院时的探望)。此类别的问题为道德伦理上该尽的责任，而非义务。(因为双方协议同意通过医学方式共同拥有孩子。)
(七)形式婚姻后，双方不受婚姻法条列的任何管束，只本有互助的原则，一方不可以持《婚姻法》要挟对方，以达到自己的目的
(八)形式婚姻后，夫妻双方应互尊互助，和谐*等地相处。
第七条 其他
(一)未尽事宜及争议，应充分协商，本着责、权、利一致原则，公*合理解决。
(二)甲或乙一方未履行协议或履行协议不当，致另一方财产损失或严重名誉损害的，过错方应承担赔偿责任。
(三)因甲或乙一方原因导致协议无效或无法履行，致另一方财产损失或严重名誉损害的，过错方应承担赔偿责任。(本条款为独立条款，不受协议效力影响)
(四)本协议另有《形婚后孩子的生育抚养协议》约定应遵从该约定，无约定的条款即按协议履行。
第八条 本协议自甲乙双方签字或盖章之日起生效，一式二份，效力相同。
甲 方： 乙 方：
身份证号码： 身份证号码：
签约日期： 签约地点：
甲方：
乙方：
根据国家有关法律法规，甲乙自愿结成婚姻关系，并就有关事宜协商一致，订立本协议。
第一条 财产
(一)甲、乙所得财产均为个人财产，不得归为共同所有。个人财产包括婚姻关系存续期间所得工资、奖金，生产、经营收益，知识产权收益，继承、受赠财产、房屋、房屋增值部分及其他财产。
(二)位于 房屋内财产均为甲方所有;位于 房屋内财产均为乙方所有。并以法律公证。
(三)除上述财产外，收益人、购买人为财产所有人。财产权属难以确认的，以财产所有权证确认权利人，财产权证未具名的，如无其他证据证明，权证持有人为该财产所有权人。
(四)如基于甲(乙)方原因，双方共同继承或受赠第三人财产的，乙(甲)方须放弃权利主张，所得财产全部归甲(乙)方所有。
第二条 费用
(一)甲、乙分别承担本人、本人亲属及其他与自身相关联的费用，不得涉及另一方任何费用支出。甲乙双方协商解决的除外。
(二)甲、乙双方未经协商单方生养或领养子女，由生养或领养方承担一切费用及法律责任、法律义务。 由于单方原因需采取与他人人工**方式受孕的，所有费用及法律责任由受孕行为人单独承担。子女生活、教育、医疗及其他费用，也由受孕行为人单独承 担。另一方有义务协助孩子的一切抚养事项。(此事项依据《形婚后孩子的生育抚养协议》执行。) 如单方选择领养方式，有关事宜应参照前款。
(三)财产的修缮、维护由财产所有权人负责，有关费用及衍生费用由财产所有权人承担。
(四)结婚期间费用，一些不可避免的费用，由甲乙双方协议分摊。
第三条 债务
(一)婚姻关系存续期间，因甲或乙单方行为产生的任何债务均不得归为共同债务，共同债务必须有甲乙双方签字认可的书面证明。
(二)个人债务仅以负债方所有财产为限清偿，不得涉及另一方财产。因一方负债致另一方财产损失的，负债方应予赔偿。
(三)债权债务关系形成前，负债方应将上述债务约定告知债权人或第三人，债权人或第三人以不知该约定为由要求甲乙共同偿还，并致另一方损失的，负债方应予赔偿。
第四条 继承及受益
(一)甲、乙均承诺自愿放弃对另一方及其亲属财产或权益的继承权，对另一方处置个人财产及权益行为无任何异议。
(二)甲、乙或第三人为其中一方购买保险的，投保人或被保险人有权确定保险受益人，未约定受益人、受益人约定不明或因其他原因引起纠纷的，应依照被保险人意愿确定受益人。甲或乙中可能的受益人应自动放弃受益，由被保险人直系亲属所有。
(三)甲或乙一方基于婚姻关系受益，并可能导致另一方既得利益或预期利益损失的，受益方应在受益财产数额以内予以合理补偿。
第五条 行为
(一)甲乙双方在婚姻存续期间生活彼此独立、互不干涉。婚后，双方各自管理自己房门钥匙，以避免无必要的干涉。
(二)甲乙婚姻关系存续期间为无性婚姻，如甲(乙)单方违反规定，甲(乙)承担一切相关法律责任。
(三)甲(乙)方在婚姻期间如发生意外，乙(甲)方不承担抚养义务。
(四)甲乙双方应相互体谅，谨言慎行，避免给另一方造成不必要的压力和伤害。
(五)由乙方主观原因或乙方无故主动提出造成离婚，乙方要支付孩子的抚养费用不低于30%。同时享有一周至少一次的探望权利。
(六)非乙方主观原因造成离婚，或由甲方无故提出离婚的，甲方需按需负责孩子抚养费用不少于85%。并享有至少一周一次的探望权利。
第六条 补充条列
(一)结婚的初衷，双方任何时候都必须保密，无论任何情况下，都不能告知对方家长及让对方家长知晓。如为某一方泄密而导致婚姻失败不得不离婚的，该方应无条件赔偿对方名誉损失50000元人民币。如因单方的泄密导致对方家长精神大受打击而导致身体状况发生较大的不良影响的，泄密方负有一半的医疗责任。
(二)如*时过年过节双方在对方家中做客或探亲时所收受的红包，因金额较少，不归还对方属合情合理。其中一方探望对方家长或亲戚时的来回车费及住宿问题，应独自承担，而送给对方家人的礼物，原则上一两百的由送礼方独自承担则可，但如超五百元以上的，则应由双方分摊。而跟对方家长见面交代时，为照顾彼此面子，应说礼物是对方准备的，不能说是自己准备的。
(三)有关婚礼，原则上一切从简。婚纱照及男方家里的订婚酒*可免，蜜月旅游可免。但男方应按照女方当地的*俗交付一定金额的礼金给予女方/女方家长。具体数额，双方协议解决。
(四)婚后居住问题，经协商： 不可以无辜打搅对方生活。
(五)双方老人的赡养，主要经济责任归各自处理，夫妻双方均有责任以及义务在适当而必要的`(日子)时期或者特别的节假日与对方一起探望对方的家人，尤其 对方的父母。*均一年最少3次。双方都应本着孝敬老人的思想尽力为对方以及父母做出应有的贡献，如探望以及照顾。
(六)如婚后其中一方本人或其家人出现意外的疾病或事故需要对方的经济上的支援的，对方应尽力所能及的经济支援或物质支援以及必要且应该的慰问及安抚(如对方亲属生病住院时的探望)。此类别的问题为道德伦理上该尽的责任，而非义务。(因为双方协议同意通过医学方式共同拥有孩子。)
(七)形式婚姻后，双方不受婚姻法条列的任何管束，只本有互助的原则，一方不可以持《婚姻法》要挟对方，以达到自己的目的
(八)形式婚姻后，夫妻双方应互尊互助，和谐*等地相处。
第七条 其他
(一)未尽事宜及争议，应充分协商，本着责、权、利一致原则，公*合理解决。
(二)甲或乙一方未履行协议或履行协议不当，致另一方财产损失或严重名誉损害的，过错方应承担赔偿责任。
(三)因甲或乙一方原因导致协议无效或无法履行，致另一方财产损失或严重名誉损害的，过错方应承担赔偿责任。(本条款为独立条款，不受协议效力影响)
(四)本协议另有《形婚后孩子的生育抚养协议》约定应遵从该约定，无约定的条款即按协议履行。
第八条 本协议自甲乙双方签字或盖章之日起生效，一式二份，效力相同。
甲 方： 乙 方：
身份证号码： 身份证号码：
签约日期： 签约地点：
协议人：方某，男，xx年x月x日出生，住xx市xxx路xxx号。
协议人：王某，女，xx年x月x日出生，住xx市xxx路xxx号。
协议人方某王某双方于xx年x月x日在xx区人民*办理结婚登记手续。xx年x月x日生育儿子xxx。因协议人双方性格严重不合，无法继续共同生活，夫妻感情且已完全破裂，现双方就自愿离婚一事达成如下协议：
一、方某与王某自愿离婚。
二、儿子方xx由女方抚养，由男方每月给付抚养费600元，在每月5号前付清；直至付到 8周岁止， 8周岁之后的有关费用双方日后重新协商。（也可一次性付清抚养费）。
三、双方有夫妻共同财产座落在xx路xx小区xx室商品房一套，价值人民币80万元，现协商归女方王某所有，由女方一次性给付男方方某现金38万元，此款在本协议签订后的第二天付清；此房内的家用电器及家俱归女方所有。
四、夫妻无共同债权及债务。若有债务，在谁的名下则由谁来承担。
五、方某可在每月的第一个星期六早上八时接儿子到其居住地，于星期日下午五时送回王某居住地，如临时或春节探望，可提前一天与王某协商，达成一致意见后方可探望。
本协议一式叁份，双方各执一份，婚姻登记机关存档一份，在双方签字，并经婚姻登记机关办理相应手续后生效。
协议人：
协议人：
20xx年xx月xx日
婚姻协议书符合合同法的相关规定。
协议只要是表示真实，不违反法律规定和公序良俗，是有效的，受法律保护，具有法律效力。
《中华人民共和国合同法》第七条规定，当事人订立、履行合同，应当遵守法律、行政法规，尊重社会公德，不得扰乱社会经济秩序，损害社会公共利益；第五十二条规定，有下列情形之一，合同无效：
1、一方以欺诈、胁迫的手段订立合同，损害国家利益；
2、恶意串通，损害国家、集体或者第三人利益；
3、以合法形式掩盖非法目的；
4、损害社会公共利益；
5、违反法律、行政法规的强制性规定。
三、约定财产制是夫妻通过协议确定财产的产权制度。
约定的时间可以在婚前也可以在结婚后，约定的财产可以是婚前财产也可以是在婚姻关系存续期间所得的财产，财产的权属关系可以是共同所有、各自所有，也可以是部分共同所有、各自所有。根据我国现行司法解释规定，夫妻双方就财产关系所作的书面约定及无争议的口头约定，除规避法律的外，均为有效约定，对夫妻双方发生法律约束力。
夫妻针对双方可能出现的问题制定契约，内容涉及诸多方面，如约定财产的归属，约定一方有不忠行为时给对方的赔偿数额，甚至有约定空床费的情形。
《合同法》第2条第2款规定了“婚姻、收养、监护等有关身份关系的协议，适用其他法律的规定”，即关于婚姻关系的协议不能适用《合同法》的有关规定，但根据《婚姻法》第19条第2款“夫妻对婚姻关系存续期间所得的财产以及婚前财产的约定，对双方具有约束力”的`规定，《婚姻法》对于夫妻有关财产的约定是给予充分保护的。只要双方自愿签订的协议，不违反法律的禁止性规定，就应当尊重婚姻当事人的意思自治。按照当事人的约定处理。但如果该协议违反了法律的禁止性规定，则对其效力应予否定。如有的协议约定“婚后双方任意一方提出离婚的，向对方予以赔偿”，该约定即为无效，因违法了婚姻自由的基本原则。限制了当事人离婚自由权的行使，不具有法律效力。
男方： 身份证：
女方： 身份证：
为了保障家庭的安定，维护彼此的合法权益，杜绝婚外情情况的发生，经男女双方商定，在婚姻关系存在期间，如果夫妻任何一方与其他异性发生婚外情或与其他异性存在超正常友谊的情感问题，（出现以上情况的一方在协议中称为“过错方”），另一方（以下称“受害方”）享受以下协议规定：
1、 离婚时，孩子抚养权归过错方享有，关于家庭的所有财产（存款、房产、车）归受害方所有，过错方净身出户。
2、 离婚时，只承认夫妻双方共同签字的债务或欠条， 其余欠条谁签字由谁负责偿还。
3、 离婚后，受害方可自己决定给孩子改名，过错方应无条件同意和配合。 以上协议作为因婚外情情况而离婚时的夫妻双方财产分割凭证，以上协议内容由夫妻双方共同拟定，自愿签字，一经签字即生效！
男方：
女方：
签订日期： 年 月 日
——婚姻合同 (菁华5篇)
甲方：
乙方：
甲方和乙方于**年 月 日确定了夫妻关系，为了是夫妻关系在以后的活当中更加和谐与稳定，特签订此合同，合同有效期到3000年截止。如果以后两个人违反合同规定将依照法律手段裁定。
1、关于家务：如果其中一方做饭那么另外一方负责收拾碗筷和厨房卫，如果一方洗衣服那么另外一方收衣服，如果一方收拾屋子那么另外一方必须帮忙，不得抱怨！
2、关于吵架：在以后的活当中，肯定会遇见很多挫折和困难，一旦遇到困难和挫折，双方不得互相抱怨，如果甲方抱怨也是正常的，因为甲方高雪咏是女孩子，乙方赵悦利作为男人应该时时刻刻懂得忍让与呵护，不得和甲方高雪咏较真，不得小心眼。双方吵架的时候不得辱骂彼此父母，不得彼此揭短，不得说离婚，不得侮辱彼此的人格，如有违反，罚洗衣做饭一个月，如果不服从者找警察！
3、关于钱：双方作为名符其实的夫妻应当遵从男人是搂钱的耙子，女人是装钱的匣子这一基本原则，乙方赵悦利和甲方高雪咏都负责赚钱但是钱归女方高雪咏管。彼此花钱超过500必须和彼此商量沟通，否则自己想办法将亏空补上，如果不补将由其父母补上！
4、关于夫妻忠诚度：双方可以有应酬，但是必须让彼此清楚彼此的行动，一切以家为重，乙方在外应酬必须少喝酒，甲方在外不能喝酒，当然陪领导除外。甲方不得和男同事不清不楚，乙方不得和女同事不清不楚，否则滚出家，自自灭。
5、关于房产，财产：如果婚后乙方赵悦利对甲方高雪咏不忠诚，那么请净身出户。房子产权和家里所有财产归甲方高雪咏所有；如果甲方高雪咏对乙方赵悦利不忠诚，那么也净身出户，所有归乙方所有。如果将来二人和*分手，那么房子产权一人一半，财产一人一半。孩子愿意跟谁跟谁，不得逼迫！
6、关于彼此父母：不管彼此父母将来如何，必须尽到赡养双方父母的义务，不得不孝顺，否则将诉诸法律！
7、关于彼此两个家庭：要彼此适应两个家庭的'活节奏。不得对彼此家庭有任何抱怨或者不满之处，因为在这个社会存都很不容易，要彼此理解和宽容，因为宽容别人也是宽容自己！
8、就先这些吧，刚刚想到这些，以后如果有再补充！特此合同，请双方尊重彼此，白头偕老！
甲方签字：
乙方签字：
【案情】
20xx年2月，江某(女)应聘某外贸公司的财务岗位，其在应聘表婚姻状况一栏填写的是“未婚”。随后，双方签订了为期2年的劳动合同。几个月后，外贸公司发现江某在应聘时已经结婚。20xx年9月，外贸公司以江某隐瞒婚姻状况构成欺诈为由解除了与江某的劳动合同，江某不服，向人事劳动争议仲裁部门申请劳动仲裁，要求外贸公司支付违法解除劳动合同的经济赔偿金。
【分歧】
江某应聘时隐瞒婚姻状况，外贸公司能否据此解除劳动合同?
第一种意见认为，江某应聘时隐瞒婚姻状况，外贸公司可以据此解除劳动合同。《劳动合同法》第三条规定，订立劳动合同，应当遵循合法、公*、*等自愿、协商一致、诚实信用的原则。第八条规定，用人单位招用劳动者时，应当如实告知劳动者工作内容、工作条件、工作地点、职业危害、安全生产状况、劳动报酬，以及劳动者要求了解的其他情况;用人单位有权了解劳动者与劳动合同直接相关的基本情况，劳动者应当如实说明。劳动者和用人单位在法律上处于*等地位，且劳动合同订立的过程完全出于当事人双方自己的意愿。劳动合同在订立过程中，劳动者和用人单位必须诚实、善意地行使权利，不诈不欺，诚实守信。同时，《劳动合同法》第三十九条规定，劳动者以欺诈、胁迫的手段或乘人之危，使用人单位在违背真实意思的情况下订立或者变更劳动合同致使劳动合同无效的，用人单位可以解除劳动合同。
第二种意见认为，即使江某应聘时隐瞒婚姻状况，外贸公司不能据此解除劳动合同。
【评析】
笔者同意第二种意见，理由如下：
《劳动合同法》第八条规定，用人单位招用劳动者时，应当如实告知劳动者工作内容、工作条件、工作地点、职业危害、安全生产状况、劳动报酬，以及劳动者要求了解的其他情况;用人单位有权了解劳动者与劳动合同直接相关的基本情况，劳动者应当如实说明。
什么是劳动者与劳动合同直接相关的基本情况?简单来说就是履行劳动合同的能力和条件，具体一点就是学历、技能、身体状况等，当然具体情况还需具体分析。就本案而言，劳动者的婚姻状况不属于与劳动合同直接相关的基本情况。对于财务岗位，劳动者是否结婚都不影响劳动合同的履行，其不属于履行劳动合同能力和条件的范畴。因此，劳动者的婚姻状况不是用人单位必须了解的内容，劳动者没有告知的义务，不必如实回答。
《劳动合同法》第二十六条规定，下列劳动合同无效或部分无效：(一)以欺诈、胁迫的手段或乘人之危，使对方在违背真实意思的情况下订立或者变更劳动合同的，……。
何谓欺诈?一般来说是指行为人故意制造假相、隐瞒事实真相并可能使他人误解上当的行为。其具体又可分为两种行为，即故意制造假相和隐瞒事实真相。通俗来说，前者指把没有的东西弄出来制造有的假相，后者指把有的东西弄没制造没有的假相。“隐瞒事实真相”
有一个前提，就是行为人必须有告知的义务，否则也不存在“隐瞒事实真相”。因此，对于没有告知义务的隐瞒，不构成“隐瞒事实真相”，也不属于“欺诈”。就本案而言，隐瞒婚姻状况不构成欺诈。
退一步讲，即使隐瞒婚姻状况属于欺诈，违背了用人单位的“真实意思”，但是用人单位的“真实意思”也不能违反法律的规定，否则无效。《劳动法》第三条规定，劳动者享有*等就业的权利。用人单位不能就劳动者是否已婚而作出就业歧视的行为。在本案中，外贸公司的“真实意思”可能是“要求江某未婚”，但是外贸公司的这种要求既没有在招聘时声明也不符合法律关于禁止就业歧视的规定，其是无效的。因此，本案中不存在违背外贸公司“真实意思”的情形，外贸公司与江某的劳动合同有效。
综上所述，外贸公司与江某的劳动合同有效，外贸公司不能依据《劳动合同法》第三十九条第五项的规定解除与江某的劳动合同。所以，江某要求外贸公司支付违法解除劳动合同的经济赔偿金的请求应得到支持。
甲方：_______________________
乙方：_______________________
为了进一步发挥婚介超市信息*台的作用，充分利用现代化信息技术手段和网络信息资源，为社会各界的单身朋友服务。双方在*等自愿、互利有偿和诚实守信的基础上，就婚姻介绍服务一事，协商一致，达成如下协议：
第一条服务方式
1．甲方向乙方提供需要服务的内容和需要发布的信息：
2．乙方利用自己的信息渠道和信息资源，向甲方提供下列服务：
a．在媒体和网站发布征婚信息，可以在网站、局域网、图文查阅会员资料。
b．为甲方客观推荐会员，提出合理化建议。安排好见面事宜。
c．组织会员联谊活动。
第二条服务承诺
1．甲方入会自愿、退会自由，可以挑选指定工作人员为其服务。
2．乙方要在收到甲方会员登记表1个工作日内将乙方信息入库，做好会员管理工作。
3．乙方在收到甲方需要服务内容后1个工作日内作出信息反馈。
4．乙方所提供的信息，征婚会员的资料，保证资料的真实性。
5．乙方每个月至少要对甲方进行电话或电子邮件回访两次，并做好回访记录。
6．乙方根据甲方的征婚要求，为甲方推荐入围人选征得双方同意安排见面。
7．乙方为甲方提供心理咨询，婚姻建议。
8．通知甲方参加婚介超市举办的各种交友活动。
第三条服务期限
自本协议双方签字、盖章生效至甲方撤档终止。
第四条服务费用
基本服务费由甲方支付给乙方。自本协议签订生效后一次性付清200元。特殊服务费另行商定。
第五条双方责任
1．甲方提供必要的'证件确保所发布信息的真实性和可靠性。甲方发布的信息，其真实性和可靠性受到质疑时，由此所产生的后果和责任由甲方承担。
2．甲方接受约见时要准时、文明礼貌。及时反馈意见。联络方式改变及时通知乙方。甲方如婚姻圆满、及时通知乙方并办理撤档手续，征婚资料退还甲方。合同终止。
3．乙方必须为甲方保密。未经甲方同意，乙方不得向应征者以外的其他单位、组织或个人泄露甲方征婚信息资料”。
4．乙方不得以婚托、虚假广告等方式欺骗征婚者，否则其收取的基本服务费用双倍返还给甲方。
5．乙方提供的信息，会员自述部分的内容仅供甲方参考，甲方与会员在交往中不要发生经济往来，乙方不承担由此产生的任何后果和责任。
6．乙方必须认真细致的做好服务工作，存在问题要及时与乙方取得联系。
第六条违约处理
双方在协议的履行过程中发生争议或违约，应按照协议分清责任，本着友好协商的原则自行协商解决。双方不能协商的，可请双方主管部门进行调解解决。双方不愿协商解决、调解不成的，双方商定按司法程序解决。
第七条其它约定
1．协议的修改及补充，只能通过双方签署的书面协议才能生效。
2．本协议一式二份，甲、乙双方各执一份，自双方签字盖章之日起生效。
3．未尽事宜，由双方协商解决。
甲方签字：________________
乙方签字：________________
【案情】
20xx年2月，江某(女)应聘某外贸公司的财务岗位，其在应聘表婚姻状况一栏填写的是“未婚”。随后，双方签订了为期2年的劳动合同。几个月后，外贸公司发现江某在应聘时已经结婚。20xx年9月，外贸公司以江某隐瞒婚姻状况构成欺诈为由解除了与江某的劳动合同，江某不服，向人事劳动争议仲裁部门申请劳动仲裁，要求外贸公司支付违法解除劳动合同的经济赔偿金。
【分歧】
江某应聘时隐瞒婚姻状况，外贸公司能否据此解除劳动合同?
第一种意见认为，江某应聘时隐瞒婚姻状况，外贸公司可以据此解除劳动合同。《劳动合同法》第三条规定，订立劳动合同，应当遵循合法、公*、*等自愿、协商一致、诚实信用的原则。第八条规定，用人单位招用劳动者时，应当如实告知劳动者工作内容、工作条件、工作地点、职业危害、安全生产状况、劳动报酬，以及劳动者要求了解的其他情况;用人单位有权了解劳动者与劳动合同直接相关的基本情况，劳动者应当如实说明。劳动者和用人单位在法律上处于*等地位，且劳动合同订立的过程完全出于当事人双方自己的意愿。劳动合同在订立过程中，劳动者和用人单位必须诚实、善意地行使权利，不诈不欺，诚实守信。同时，《劳动合同法》第三十九条规定，劳动者以欺诈、胁迫的手段或乘人之危，使用人单位在违背真实意思的情况下订立或者变更劳动合同致使劳动合同无效的，用人单位可以解除劳动合同。
第二种意见认为，即使江某应聘时隐瞒婚姻状况，外贸公司不能据此解除劳动合同。
【评析】
笔者同意第二种意见，理由如下：
《劳动合同法》第八条规定，用人单位招用劳动者时，应当如实告知劳动者工作内容、工作条件、工作地点、职业危害、安全生产状况、劳动报酬，以及劳动者要求了解的其他情况;用人单位有权了解劳动者与劳动合同直接相关的基本情况，劳动者应当如实说明。
什么是劳动者与劳动合同直接相关的基本情况?简单来说就是履行劳动合同的能力和条件，具体一点就是学历、技能、身体状况等，当然具体情况还需具体分析。就本案而言，劳动者的婚姻状况不属于与劳动合同直接相关的基本情况。对于财务岗位，劳动者是否结婚都不影响劳动合同的履行，其不属于履行劳动合同能力和条件的'范畴。因此，劳动者的婚姻状况不是用人单位必须了解的内容，劳动者没有告知的义务，不必如实回答。
《劳动合同法》第二十六条规定，下列劳动合同无效或部分无效：(一)以欺诈、胁迫的手段或乘人之危，使对方在违背真实意思的情况下订立或者变更劳动合同的，……。
何谓欺诈?一般来说是指行为人故意制造假相、隐瞒事实真相并可能使他人误解上当的行为。其具体又可分为两种行为，即故意制造假相和隐瞒事实真相。通俗来说，前者指把没有的东西弄出来制造有的假相，后者指把有的东西弄没制造没有的假相。“隐瞒事实真相”
有一个前提，就是行为人必须有告知的义务，否则也不存在“隐瞒事实真相”。因此，对于没有告知义务的隐瞒，不构成“隐瞒事实真相”，也不属于“欺诈”。就本案而言，隐瞒婚姻状况不构成欺诈。
退一步讲，即使隐瞒婚姻状况属于欺诈，违背了用人单位的“真实意思”，但是用人单位的“真实意思”也不能违反法律的规定，否则无效。《劳动法》第三条规定，劳动者享有*等就业的权利。用人单位不能就劳动者是否已婚而作出就业歧视的行为。在本案中，外贸公司的“真实意思”可能是“要求江某未婚”，但是外贸公司的这种要求既没有在招聘时声明也不符合法律关于禁止就业歧视的规定，其是无效的。因此，本案中不存在违背外贸公司“真实意思”的情形，外贸公司与江某的劳动合同有效。
综上所述，外贸公司与江某的劳动合同有效，外贸公司不能依据《劳动合同法》第三十九条第五项的规定解除与江某的劳动合同。所以，江某要求外贸公司支付违法解除劳动合同的经济赔偿金的请求应得到支持。
嫁方（以下简称甲方）：
娶方（以下简称乙方）：
一、项目构成：
甲乙双方经*等、自愿原则达成结婚协议。
二、构成条件：
A、甲方看乙方中意，乙方看甲方顺眼。经双方协商即可一对一形式结婚。
B、甲乙双方结婚仪式由双方协商制定。并将确定方案及日程时间，以书面形式通知亲朋好友。（23：00以后进程可略去，由甲、乙双方自行研究解决）
三、付款条件：
A、甲乙双方自签定合同之日起，乙方将每月之收入（即工薪）总额的90%一次**付甲方，余款作为乙方当月消费，在第二月交付款前将当月消费发票交付甲方（根据中华人民共和国国情，乙方可享有人民币零点伍元（0.5元）以下的免审权，但仅限以转帐支票方式支取）
B、如乙方在起薪日后由于某种原因未能及时付款，需及时向甲方反映，并征询其同意。否则按违约处理，并根据延迟天数交付滞约金。
四、质量要求：
甲乙双方婚姻关系签定《结婚证》即日起效。双方可在签字前进行相互质检。《结婚证》一经签定后发现质量问题概不退换。
五、权益分配：
甲乙双方本着*等自愿的原则结合，并分别享有如下权益。
A、乙方享有日常政务的决定权，甲方拥有终审权。
B、乙方享有日常家务的规划权，甲方拥有监督权。
C、乙方享有日常饮食的策划权，甲方拥有品尝权。
D、甲方享有对服饰，化妆品的'购买权，乙方有付帐的义务。
六、纠纷解决；
如果双方出现纠纷，原因大多是乙方权益受*衡的攻击，那么请乙方记住以下三点即可得到解决：
A、这不是一个不*等条约。
B、这真不是一个不*等条约。
C、这的确不是一个不*等条约。
七、其他：
本合同双方签字之日起效，有效期世世，并在双方履行合同后升华。
甲方（签章） 乙方（签章）
年 月 日 年 月 日
——婚姻英语作文 (菁华5篇)
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的`惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的'小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的.。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的`注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的`幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
——关于婚姻的谚语英语 30句菁华
1、男人老实少是非，女人贤慧家和睦。
2、冷热夫妻水长流，激烈夫妻难到头。
3、妻贤一半福，妻孬望天哭。
4、一个豆太少，四个豆太老，三个豆正好，不要分文，白头偕老。
5、好狗不叉鸡，好夫不打妻。
6、家有千斤担，妻挑五百斤。
7、公不离婆，秤不离砣，筷子不离筷箩箩。
8、遮体保暖粗布衣，恩爱相处结发妻。
9、一个好汉三个帮，接个婆娘手一双。
10、夫妻吵架，自己转弯。
11、结发夫妻丑也好，双线补衣破也牢。
12、娶妻娶德不娶色，娶妻子要娶有德行。
13、夫妻一条船，落难两相帮。
14、找郎要找五大员，身体健壮还有钱。
15、丈夫在人面前走，带着妻子一双手。
16、夫妻和，全家乐；夫妻吵，老少跑。
17、夫妻伙的脸，二、四、八月的天。
18、家有贤妻，男儿不遭坏事；家有恶妻，男儿坐穿牢底。
19、两口子打架不记仇，黑哒共个花枕头。
20、婆娘管汉子，金银满罐子。
21、不看男儿妻，单看男儿衣。
22、孝顺儿女，赶不上半路夫妻。
23、女大五，欺了祖。
24、买猪不买圈，媳妇靠教劝。
25、不能只看她长得俊不俊，要看她的内心美不美。
26、结婚不宜早，只要配的好。
27、妻子要小，二麦要老。
28、要热是火口子，要亲是两口子。
29、买锅的敲敲再买，姑娘了解了再娶。
30、夫妻常吵闹，邻居都看笑。
