In this funny, casual talk from TEDx, writer Jenna McCarthy shares surprising research on how marriages (especially happy marriages) really work.In my opinion, marriage is more than just a ring on your finger ,it’s a bond between two people that should grow over time and add value to your life.
Is marriage indispensable to persons of the right ageAfter watching the speech,my answer is absolutely YES. Responsibilities always comes with rights during marriage in which,I think,the benefit play a dominant role. Marriage is an intimate and enduring relationship that grows over time and makes you a better person. Also,marriage is linked to health and economic benefits. According to the video,married individuals tend to have better physicalhealth, psychological well-being, and a lower mortality risk. Financially, married men tend to earnmore, and married women are less likely to fall into poverty. Marriage is also linked to greater wealth accumulation.
Marriage is the joining of two people in a bond that putatively lasts until death, but in practice is increasingly cut short by divorce.we may wander how to maintain a happy marriageThe speech given some answers to some degree.Fist of all, you should clear why marriage * to you and why you are wiling to spend the rest of your life making the relationship a priority.What’more,the central point of the suggestions given by Jenna McCarthy,eg. keeping yourself more attractive and thinner than your husband, focusing on the positives/praise-worthy moments ,is cherish, giving and respect.Also,divorce is contagious contagious. So we have to be intentional to place ourselves in the company of those who are striving to make marriage better.
Building a strong and intimate marriage starts from within yourself, and then becomes a bond between you and your partner that lasts a lifetime.To conclude,I agree highly with the speaker’s viewpoint: whether you're in it or you're searching for it, marriage is an institution worth pursuing and protecting.
Different people have various viewpoints toward marriage cause they have different roles and stands.QianZhongshu,an eminent writer who prefaces his book A Surrounded City with ‘Marriage is a surrounded city which people encircled want to flee from while those who stand out the city are eager to step into’. However,Jane Austen started her book Pride and Prejudice with ‘It is a truth universally
acknowledged that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife’.
In my point of view,marriage is a warm harbour in which we can seek shelter,it is also a destination of our life voyage after we leave parents’home or we are no longer under the protection of our parents.
So we must choose marriage cautiously and then try our best to make a perfect place where we can live happily with another person.However,we can’t manage it on our own without cooperating with him. In other words,choosing a marriage means choosing a person to live with.In consequence,we should choose the husband cautiously.
As for me,first,my husband must show his parents filial obedience.Parents are those who love us best.How dare we expect he loves us if a person even treats his parents illI believe there is love existing between man and woman,while I believe in the
emotion which can be developed after living together a long time in marriage.A man can fall in love with his wife momentarily,but only when he regards his wife as a real family member can his love lasts longer.Seldom a man can endure the marriage with a woman when he is not love her any more or even hate her.However,there is enough space for manoeuvers if a man treat his wife as an indispensable family member.Second, a husband should have strong responsibilities.A man with strong
responsibilities is reliable.On one hand,he will work hard to make us happy.On the other hand,he may do not anything that will hurt his wife.Maybe,most of the men are fond of the new and tired of the old,but a man who has strong responsibilities will make his mind rather his emotion control his behaviour.
Last but not least,a husband should have similar outlook on life and value with his wife.Because it is a horrible thing to live an entire life with a person whom we have nothing to talk with.
Now let talk about the protagnists in the Nettle.To tell the truth,I don’t like the woman in it.I don’t blame her for leaving a person whom she doesn’t want to live with.I do blame her for leaving her family.She just moves out and almost keeps no connection with her husband.They can get together to cope with their
marriage.Though their marriage is too far gone, they can still be good friends.And also I hate that she hope an affair with Mike.Much as she loves Mike,she shouldn’t break a whole family at another poor woman’s cost.She can take Mike as a close friend or a brother whom can exchange life and work experience.
Fortunately,they don’t lose their mind and do something that will hurt others.Of course it is a pity that they don’t meet each other any more.
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的'突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的`小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的'。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the house.Does marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.
现在，当一对情侣结婚，他们第一件事就是凑够钱去买房子。在*，婚姻似乎意味着房子，据报道，一对新婚夫妇离婚，原因在于他们的`父母弄不清谁是房子的合法人。婚姻必须加上房子吗？我不这样认为。
It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.
当人们结婚，他们必须要有房子，这是很正常的，这因为房子给夫妇带来安全感。有房子意味着他们安定，即使工作上被开除，也不用担心住哪里。人们有他们的安全感归因于房子。婚姻也带来安全感，所以人们觉得房子是必须的。
We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.
我们要看到这样的事实，今天人们赋予房子太多的情感。有时候他们甚至为房子而结婚，真爱的价值被扭曲，人们不再把爱放在第一位上，他们把房子看成最重要的东西。所以如果两个男孩追一个女孩，毫无疑问，有房子的那个男生赢了。这是多么可怕的事情埃
On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.
在我看来，真爱跟房子没有关系，婚姻是在爱的基础上，房子不是婚姻的必需品。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的`灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the house.Does marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.
现在，当一对情侣结婚，他们第一件事就是凑够钱去买房子。在*，婚姻似乎意味着房子，据报道，一对新婚夫妇离婚，原因在于他们的父母弄不清谁是房子的合法人。婚姻必须加上房子吗？我不这样认为。
It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.
当人们结婚，他们必须要有房子，这是很正常的`，这因为房子给夫妇带来安全感。有房子意味着他们安定，即使工作上被开除，也不用担心住哪里。人们有他们的安全感归因于房子。婚姻也带来安全感，所以人们觉得房子是必须的。
We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.
我们要看到这样的事实，今天人们赋予房子太多的情感。有时候他们甚至为房子而结婚，真爱的价值被扭曲，人们不再把爱放在第一位上，他们把房子看成最重要的东西。所以如果两个男孩追一个女孩，毫无疑问，有房子的那个男生赢了。这是多么可怕的事情埃
On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.
在我看来，真爱跟房子没有关系，婚姻是在爱的基础上，房子不是婚姻的必需品。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的'幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的`缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
——婚姻英语作文 (菁华10篇)
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的'人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的'， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的`灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的.都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的.时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的.密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the house.Does marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.
现在，当一对情侣结婚，他们第一件事就是凑够钱去买房子。在*，婚姻似乎意味着房子，据报道，一对新婚夫妇离婚，原因在于他们的.父母弄不清谁是房子的合法人。婚姻必须加上房子吗？我不这样认为。
It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.
当人们结婚，他们必须要有房子，这是很正常的，这因为房子给夫妇带来安全感。有房子意味着他们安定，即使工作上被开除，也不用担心住哪里。人们有他们的安全感归因于房子。婚姻也带来安全感，所以人们觉得房子是必须的。
We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.
我们要看到这样的事实，今天人们赋予房子太多的情感。有时候他们甚至为房子而结婚，真爱的价值被扭曲，人们不再把爱放在第一位上，他们把房子看成最重要的东西。所以如果两个男孩追一个女孩，毫无疑问，有房子的那个男生赢了。这是多么可怕的事情埃
On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.
在我看来，真爱跟房子没有关系，婚姻是在爱的基础上，房子不是婚姻的必需品。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的'缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的.秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的`茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
——婚姻状况承诺书 (菁华10篇)
婚姻和生育情况承诺书
我们谨此承诺：
女方姓名： 民族： 出生日期： 年 月 日 工作单位： 身份证号码： 户籍地：
婚姻状况：（初/再婚） 结婚时间： 承诺时子女数： 子女姓名： 性别：
男方姓名： 民族：
出生日期： 年 月 日 工作单位： 身份证号码： 户籍地： 姻状况：（初/再婚） 结婚时间： 承诺时子女数： 子女姓名： 性别：
双方现居住地：
我们承诺上述情况完全真实，如有虚假，愿承担相应的法律责任。
承诺人：
承诺人：
年 月 日 其他需要说明的情况：
婚姻和生育情况承诺书
我们谨此承诺：
女方姓名： 民族： 出生日期： 年 月 日 工作单位： 身份证号码： 户籍地：
婚姻状况：（初/再婚） 结婚时间： 承诺时子女数： 子女姓名： 性别：
男方姓名： 民族：
出生日期： 年 月 日 工作单位： 身份证号码： 户籍地： 姻状况：（初/再婚） 结婚时间： 承诺时子女数： 子女姓名： 性别：
双方现居住地：
我们承诺上述情况完全真实，如有虚假，愿承担相应的法律责任。
承诺人：
承诺人：
年 月 日 其他需要说明的情况：
承 诺 书
未经老婆的同意，不能单独和别的女生照相唱歌逛街吃饭喝茶等一切事情； 大事小事都和老婆商量，得到同意才执行；
任何时候，任何事都不隐瞒，不撒谎；
尽一切努力满足老婆的物质文化需要；
只要时间允许，在家要抢着做饭，做菜，洗碗，扫地，擦桌子及其它相关之类的粗活；
老婆骂人不顶嘴，不暗讽，不敷衍；
对老婆加倍疼爱，让老婆过的开开心心，漂漂亮亮，幸幸福福；
老婆有揍我的权利，老婆揍我的时候，要挺住；
与老婆有争吵时，要先让步；
老婆发泄时候，要任其蹂躏不得有还手瞪眼之行为；
老婆任何时候发脾气的时候，要挨住；
任何时候不和别的女生有超越普通关系的关系双方都要忠诚对待婚姻； 若我出轨，则财产归老婆，孩子归老婆；
对于老婆的工作要特别支持，帮她分担工作的烦恼；
未征得老婆同意的情况下，不和别的女人发短信打电话；
别的女人主动和我说话，只能礼貌回应；
老婆不喜欢的事坚决不做，不喜欢的话，坚决不说；
能不加班就不加班，能早下班就早下班，周末假日无特殊情况，都必须陪老婆； 不做坏事，不做任何对不起家里和老婆的事；
老婆的'事最重要;所有的账号密码都要让老婆知道！
老婆问的话，必须马上回答 ；
老婆伤心难过的时候，感同身受，要想办法缓解不能置之不理；
老婆想要的时候，要予取予求，持之以恒；
老婆不想要的时候，不可抱怨，自己解决;老婆的电话第一时间接听；
家里一切事务本着和*解决，耐心对待的原则，有事大家商量，以老婆指示为指导大家和谐共处，相亲相爱，白头偕老！
承诺人签字：
婚姻家庭状况承诺书
本人姓名：_______________，身份证号：_______________________________
现就婚姻家庭状况承诺如下：
□达到法定结婚年龄未婚
□离异未再婚
□丧偶未再婚
□已婚，配偶姓名：______________，身份证号：__________________________ 子女1姓名：_______________，身份证号：__________________________
子女2姓名：_______________，身份证号：__________________________
本人上述声明完全真实。如有虚假，将承担《中华人民共和国税收征收管理法》第六十三条“进行虚假纳税申报，不缴或者少缴应纳税款的'，是偷税。对纳税人偷税的，由税务机关追缴其不缴或者少缴的税款、滞纳金，并处不缴或少缴的税款百分之五十以上五倍以下的罚款；构成犯罪的，依法追究刑事责任。”规定的法律责任。
承诺人：
年 月 日
承 诺 书
未经老婆的同意，不能单独和别的女生照相唱歌逛街吃饭喝茶等一切事情； 大事小事都和老婆商量，得到同意才执行；
任何时候，任何事都不隐瞒，不撒谎；
尽一切努力满足老婆的物质文化需要；
只要时间允许，在家要抢着做饭，做菜，洗碗，扫地，擦桌子及其它相关之类的粗活；
老婆骂人不顶嘴，不暗讽，不敷衍；
对老婆加倍疼爱，让老婆过的开开心心，漂漂亮亮，幸幸福福；
老婆有揍我的权利，老婆揍我的时候，要挺住；
与老婆有争吵时，要先让步；
老婆发泄时候，要任其蹂躏不得有还手瞪眼之行为；
老婆任何时候发脾气的时候，要挨住；
任何时候不和别的女生有超越普通关系的关系双方都要忠诚对待婚姻； 若我出轨，则财产归老婆，孩子归老婆；
对于老婆的工作要特别支持，帮她分担工作的烦恼；
未征得老婆同意的情况下，不和别的女人发短信打电话；
别的女人主动和我说话，只能礼貌回应；
老婆不喜欢的事坚决不做，不喜欢的话，坚决不说；
能不加班就不加班，能早下班就早下班，周末假日无特殊情况，都必须陪老婆； 不做坏事，不做任何对不起家里和老婆的事；
老婆的事最重要;所有的账号密码都要让老婆知道！
老婆问的.话，必须马上回答 ；
老婆伤心难过的时候，感同身受，要想办法缓解不能置之不理；
老婆想要的时候，要予取予求，持之以恒；
老婆不想要的时候，不可抱怨，自己解决;老婆的电话第一时间接听；
家里一切事务本着和*解决，耐心对待的原则，有事大家商量，以老婆指示为指导大家和谐共处，相亲相爱，白头偕老！
承诺人签字：
承 诺 书
未经老婆的同意，不能单独和别的`女生照相唱歌逛街吃饭喝茶等一切事情； 大事小事都和老婆商量，得到同意才执行；
任何时候，任何事都不隐瞒，不撒谎；
尽一切努力满足老婆的物质文化需要；
只要时间允许，在家要抢着做饭，做菜，洗碗，扫地，擦桌子及其它相关之类的粗活；
老婆骂人不顶嘴，不暗讽，不敷衍；
对老婆加倍疼爱，让老婆过的开开心心，漂漂亮亮，幸幸福福；
老婆有揍我的权利，老婆揍我的时候，要挺住；
与老婆有争吵时，要先让步；
老婆发泄时候，要任其蹂躏不得有还手瞪眼之行为；
老婆任何时候发脾气的时候，要挨住；
任何时候不和别的女生有超越普通关系的关系双方都要忠诚对待婚姻； 若我出轨，则财产归老婆，孩子归老婆；
对于老婆的工作要特别支持，帮她分担工作的烦恼；
未征得老婆同意的情况下，不和别的女人发短信打电话；
别的女人主动和我说话，只能礼貌回应；
老婆不喜欢的事坚决不做，不喜欢的话，坚决不说；
能不加班就不加班，能早下班就早下班，周末假日无特殊情况，都必须陪老婆； 不做坏事，不做任何对不起家里和老婆的事；
老婆的事最重要;所有的账号密码都要让老婆知道！
老婆问的话，必须马上回答 ；
老婆伤心难过的时候，感同身受，要想办法缓解不能置之不理；
老婆想要的时候，要予取予求，持之以恒；
老婆不想要的时候，不可抱怨，自己解决;老婆的电话第一时间接听；
家里一切事务本着和*解决，耐心对待的原则，有事大家商量，以老婆指示为指导大家和谐共处，相亲相爱，白头偕老！
承诺人签字：
本人姓名：_______________，身份证号：_______________________________
现就婚姻家庭状况承诺如下：
□达到法定结婚年龄未婚
□离异未再婚
□丧偶未再婚
□已婚，配偶姓名：______________，身份证号：__________________________子女1姓名：_______________，身份证号：__________________________
子女2姓名：_______________，身份证号：__________________________
本人上述声明完全真实。如有虚假，将承担《中华人民共和国税收征收管理法》第六十三条“进行虚假纳税申报，不缴或者少缴应纳税款的，是偷税。对纳税人偷税的，由税务机关追缴其不缴或者少缴的税款、滞纳金，并处不缴或少缴的税款百分之五十以上五倍以下的罚款；构成犯罪的'，依法追究刑事责任。”规定的法律责任。
承诺人：
年 月 日
承 诺 书
未经老婆的同意，不能单独和别的女生照相唱歌逛街吃饭喝茶等一切事情； 大事小事都和老婆商量，得到同意才执行；
任何时候，任何事都不隐瞒，不撒谎；
尽一切努力满足老婆的物质文化需要；
只要时间允许，在家要抢着做饭，做菜，洗碗，扫地，擦桌子及其它相关之类的粗活；
老婆骂人不顶嘴，不暗讽，不敷衍；
对老婆加倍疼爱，让老婆过的开开心心，漂漂亮亮，幸幸福福；
老婆有揍我的权利，老婆揍我的时候，要挺住；
与老婆有争吵时，要先让步；
老婆发泄时候，要任其蹂躏不得有还手瞪眼之行为；
老婆任何时候发脾气的时候，要挨住；
任何时候不和别的女生有超越普通关系的关系双方都要忠诚对待婚姻； 若我出轨，则财产归老婆，孩子归老婆；
对于老婆的工作要特别支持，帮她分担工作的烦恼；
未征得老婆同意的情况下，不和别的女人发短信打电话；
别的.女人主动和我说话，只能礼貌回应；
老婆不喜欢的事坚决不做，不喜欢的话，坚决不说；
能不加班就不加班，能早下班就早下班，周末假日无特殊情况，都必须陪老婆； 不做坏事，不做任何对不起家里和老婆的事；
老婆的事最重要;所有的账号密码都要让老婆知道！
老婆问的话，必须马上回答 ；
老婆伤心难过的时候，感同身受，要想办法缓解不能置之不理；
老婆想要的时候，要予取予求，持之以恒；
老婆不想要的时候，不可抱怨，自己解决;老婆的电话第一时间接听；
家里一切事务本着和*解决，耐心对待的原则，有事大家商量，以老婆指示为指导大家和谐共处，相亲相爱，白头偕老！
承诺人签字：
承 诺 书
未经老婆的同意，不能单独和别的女生照相唱歌逛街吃饭喝茶等一切事情； 大事小事都和老婆商量，得到同意才执行；
任何时候，任何事都不隐瞒，不撒谎；
尽一切努力满足老婆的物质文化需要；
只要时间允许，在家要抢着做饭，做菜，洗碗，扫地，擦桌子及其它相关之类的.粗活；
老婆骂人不顶嘴，不暗讽，不敷衍；
对老婆加倍疼爱，让老婆过的开开心心，漂漂亮亮，幸幸福福；
老婆有揍我的权利，老婆揍我的时候，要挺住；
与老婆有争吵时，要先让步；
老婆发泄时候，要任其蹂躏不得有还手瞪眼之行为；
老婆任何时候发脾气的时候，要挨住；
任何时候不和别的女生有超越普通关系的关系双方都要忠诚对待婚姻； 若我出轨，则财产归老婆，孩子归老婆；
对于老婆的工作要特别支持，帮她分担工作的烦恼；
未征得老婆同意的情况下，不和别的女人发短信打电话；
别的女人主动和我说话，只能礼貌回应；
老婆不喜欢的事坚决不做，不喜欢的话，坚决不说；
能不加班就不加班，能早下班就早下班，周末假日无特殊情况，都必须陪老婆； 不做坏事，不做任何对不起家里和老婆的事；
老婆的事最重要;所有的账号密码都要让老婆知道！
老婆问的话，必须马上回答 ；
老婆伤心难过的时候，感同身受，要想办法缓解不能置之不理；
老婆想要的时候，要予取予求，持之以恒；
老婆不想要的时候，不可抱怨，自己解决;老婆的电话第一时间接听；
家里一切事务本着和*解决，耐心对待的原则，有事大家商量，以老婆指示为指导大家和谐共处，相亲相爱，白头偕老！
承诺人签字：
根据天津市国土资源和房屋管理局和天津市民政局相关文件有关规定，凡采取虚报、隐瞒、伪造等手段，不如实或不及时申报家庭人口（含婚姻状况）、收入、财产、住房等情况，骗取享受住房保障待遇的.，将追究其法律责任。
1.，身份证号 ，男/女，至今未婚。
2.，身份证号 ， 男/女，自年月 日与离婚后，至今未再登记结婚。
3.，身份证号 ， 男/女，自年月 日配偶去世后，至今未再登记结婚。
我承诺，以上情况真实有效，如有虚假婚姻状况，愿意承担由此产生的一切法律后果。
承诺人：年月 日
——婚姻英语作文 (菁华6篇)
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的'人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的`注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
When our family relationship, friendship, love and personal relationship became four cups different thick and Subtle tea, At push a cup to change, always have absentminded hesitation: Which on earth cup that is supposed to be first degusted in the best taste time ,which final cup ? Then the different person always have a different choice. Big customs under of the small customs is always not allowed, stick to a final twist, always wish to obtain an additional happiness
当我们的亲情、友情、爱情和私情变成了四杯浓淡不一的茶， 在推杯换盏间，总有恍惚的迟疑： 究竟哪一杯该在味道最好的时候先品，哪一杯该排到最后呢？ 然后不同的人总有不同的选择。 大世俗下的小世俗总是不被允许， 坚持到最后，总会获得一份额外的幸福。
Dark light, just light each other. The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up. Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜.数不尽的孤单
Always insisting. Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old. Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly
一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is. Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully.
希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的'注视脚下。
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past. Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west .
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
Six words really talk to solve each round to return to bitterness. Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks. Constantly, only one pond water. Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond. This is from cradle to the grave one a life time
六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世
Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head
幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失
Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret. Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come?"
千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"
美文赏析:The secrets to happiness 通往幸福的秘密
我们一直在寻找，寻找幸福的密码，走上幸福的阶梯，开启幸福的大门。可是，什么是幸福呢？是腰缠万贯？众星捧月？还是**淡淡才是真？就让我们一起来解读幸福的秘密吧。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后，妻子走*丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的`都写下来。
第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫*静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么？仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入，知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile，”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下，一老翁坐在岸边，两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标，从日出到日落，依然两手空空，老翁却怡然自得，乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说：“我即鱼，鱼即我，我在钓鱼，鱼也在钓我，就像下棋，我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当，这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头，一阵波纹飘荡过来，老翁曰：“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋，而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come？下一班幸福，几点开？
下一站会更幸福吗？没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的，请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the house.Does marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.
现在，当一对情侣结婚，他们第一件事就是凑够钱去买房子。在*，婚姻似乎意味着房子，据报道，一对新婚夫妇离婚，原因在于他们的父母弄不清谁是房子的`合法人。婚姻必须加上房子吗？我不这样认为。
It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.
当人们结婚，他们必须要有房子，这是很正常的，这因为房子给夫妇带来安全感。有房子意味着他们安定，即使工作上被开除，也不用担心住哪里。人们有他们的安全感归因于房子。婚姻也带来安全感，所以人们觉得房子是必须的。
We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.
我们要看到这样的事实，今天人们赋予房子太多的情感。有时候他们甚至为房子而结婚，真爱的价值被扭曲，人们不再把爱放在第一位上，他们把房子看成最重要的东西。所以如果两个男孩追一个女孩，毫无疑问，有房子的那个男生赢了。这是多么可怕的事情埃
On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.
在我看来，真爱跟房子没有关系，婚姻是在爱的基础上，房子不是婚姻的必需品。
——婚姻的句子 (菁华5篇)
1、婚姻和开车都需要领证。开车需要驾照；婚姻需要结婚证。
2、在父母的眼中，孩子常是自我的一部分，子女是他理想自我再来一次的机会。
3、婚姻的基础是爱情，是依恋，是尊重。
4、婚姻和车都有软肋。汽车害怕加错油；婚姻害怕进小三。
5、婚姻就好比桥梁，沟通了两个全然孤寂的世界。
6、婚姻和车都不能好高骛远。买车不是最贵的就是最好的，性能和价格适合自己的才是最好的；婚姻也一样，不是最漂亮就是最好的，合适不合适最重要。
7、承担义务是幸福而长久的婚姻关系的基础。
8、婚姻和车都需要保养。汽车长期不保养，会熄火*；婚姻长期不保养，会抛锚破裂。
9、没有冲突的婚姻，几乎同没有危机的国家一样难以想象。
10、婚姻和车都会被旁人评头论足。开高档汽车的会被开破车的眼馋；幸福的婚姻会被不幸福的人眼红。
11、婚姻的持久靠的是两颗心，而不是双方的肉体。
12、婚姻和车都是易耗品。车子开久了，性能会越来越差，实在没法开了，就得报废；婚姻走得久了，难免会遇到问题，实在没办法继续走下去了，就得离婚。
13、婚姻实质上是伦理关系。婚姻是具有法定意义的伦理性的爱。
14、婚姻是一本书，第一章写的是诗篇，而其余则是*淡的散文。
15、婚姻和车都有避风港。车的避风港叫做车库；婚姻的港湾叫做家。
16、对于亚当，天堂使他的家，而他的后裔，家就是天堂。
17、婚姻和车都需要磨合。新车表面光鲜，但内部的机械都不光滑，需要用磨合期来将其磨*；刚开始的婚姻需要两个人相互了解，相互包容，相互磨合。
18、婚姻和车都和红灯联系在一块。开车不能闯红灯；婚姻最怕红灯区。
19、婚姻是完整人生的精髓。
20、婚姻和车都需要燃料。车的燃料叫汽油，没有汽油动不了；婚姻的燃料叫爱，没有爱的婚姻不能携手到老。
21、婚姻和车都需要集中精力。开车一定要专心致志，否则就会车毁人亡；婚姻不能开小差，否则就会劳燕分飞。
1、时光荏苒，我们携手走过六周年岁月，我的愿望就是和你一起慢慢变老！
2、亲爱的，虽然已经过了六周年，但是我心理还是满满的你，这一生只想和你一起到老。
3、我们的约定有很多，等着我们一起去实现，每一年的纪念日我们都会去一个地方，在那里拍照，留下属于我们最美的回忆。
4、我爱你千真万确，纵然走过千山万水，也绝不千变万化。心中千言万语，只对你千呼万唤，愿与你共度千秋万岁。
5、无数个风雨同舟堆积而成的幸福，我想一定是三生石上雕刻的结果，用真心呵护这份缘吧，真心的祝福你们百年好合，相亲相爰一辈子。
6、爱是巧遇，也是默契；爱是神秘，也是坦白；爱是沸腾，也是*静；爱是过去，也是永远；爱是爱情，更是亲情；爱与被爱，伴你前行！
7、我得到了一个完美的你，一个真实的你，一个无以伦比的你，一个要把我全身心的爱倾诉的你！
8、老公，感谢你这些年为家所做的贡献，我代表全家及将来我们的孩子向你的啤酒肚、黑眼圈致以崇高的敬意。
9、看着床头我们的婚纱照，不知不觉婚姻已经走过六周年，这一路的酸甜苦辣只有自己知晓，未来的路还很长，我向你承诺，要一直勇敢的去面对。
10、十年的风雨历程，也让我懂得：爱，需要一点一滴的积累；情，需要一分一秒的坚持；在未来的几个十年里，我相信，我会用时间去积累对你的爱，用你永远铭记承诺去坚持对你的情，我将要让，一生一世，真爱永恒。在今天这个特殊的日子里，我衷心的祝福你天天开心快乐，时时*安幸福，分分的健康美丽。
1、其实，婚姻中的爱有时很简单。只需一个简单的拥抱，一句贴心的问候，一个诚恳的眼神，一杯白开水，一碗泡面，一条简短的信息，一个肯定，一个会心的微笑，都可能会让你身边的女人幸福一阵子，甚至一辈子。
2、结婚不是从此只有两个人面对面，结婚应该是两个人牵手共同面对这个世界。
3、糟糕的婚姻可怕吗？它不过像一所学校，你在其中经历了最钻心的疼痛、最委屈的磨炼、最坚韧的忍耐、最蚀骨的寂寞、最无望的等待。以这样饱经考验的心面对未来，还有过不去的坎吗？最怕永远面对的是过去，背朝的是未来。
4、不重视婚姻的女人是个婚姻问题，太重视婚姻的女人是个婚姻难题。
5、说婚姻是爱情的坟墓，那是人家的想法，我觉得婚姻是天堂。要看双方怎么去经营，经营得好是天堂，经营得不好就是地狱。
6、同行最不宜结婚，因为彼此事行家，谁也哄不倒谁，丈夫不会莫测高深地崇拜太太，抬头也不会盲目地崇拜丈夫，婚姻的基础就不牢固。
7、以前我没结婚时，就想到了某个年纪一定要结婚的。可是结婚后，就发现一纸婚书也代表不了什么，名分、承诺也是如此。人生的归宿不一定是婚姻，但一定要有爱。
8、婚姻最重要的基础是相互的爱慕、欣赏、信赖和感情的交融，以及对责任和义务的共同承担。婚姻是双方在这个基础上携手同行的起点。进入婚姻的秩序意味着你不能逃离了，你要承担你必须承担的责任和义务。
9、不管是一穷二白的裸婚也好，或者是锦衣玉食的富婚也好，幸福是永远不变的基调和追求。
10、结婚无须太伟大的爱情，彼此不讨厌已经够结婚资本了。
11、能够慢慢培养的不是爱情，而是*惯。能够随着时间得到的，不是感情而是感动。所以爱是一瞬间的礼物，有就有，没有就没有。但反过来说，爱和婚姻实际并不是一回事情，并不是所有的爱情都要结婚的，也不是所有婚姻都有爱情的。
12、婚姻只是一种生活方式，而并非结局。
13、一个女人有两条命，一条死于离婚，一条生于离婚。
14、裸不裸婚只是一种形式，并不能成为主宰幸福的关键，决定幸福与否还是在于人！
15、婚姻从来不能用来挽救一段破碎的爱情，破碎的爱情只能得到破碎的婚姻。
16、婚姻也是女人要经营的事业。如果有一天世界末日来了，你脑子里想的肯定不会是事业，而是家人。
17、有时候以结婚为前提的.恋爱，会更容易发现她身上那些细小的闪光点，为婚姻的持久打下坚实的基础。
18、婚姻是个很难的课题，需要两个人共同经营。每个人在自己的婚姻里都有自己的幸福和不满意的地方，关键在于自己真实的感受。
19、婚姻不是爱情的结合，而是条件的加减乘除。
20、恋爱是心理享受，婚姻是刻板方程式。
21、为了爱情的持续，婚姻的美满，妻子固要取悦丈夫，丈夫也要取悦妻子，至于如何取悦，乃是一种高级的艺术。
22、结婚仿佛金漆的鸟笼，笼子外面的鸟想住进去，笼内的鸟想飞出来；所以结而离，离而结，没有了局。
23、我一旦结婚后肯定不会离婚，无论发生什么事情，我都会想法解决，让婚姻能够长久，哪怕是对方有了外遇，我也只会把事情摆在桌面上来想法解决，而不是冲动地离婚。
24、男人的猎奇心+女人的好奇心=离婚
25、再快乐的单身汉迟早也会结婚，幸福不是永久的嘛。
26、一个人真的遇见爱情，恐怕还是要结婚的。婚姻应该是爱情的自然的归宿。爱情是双方相互理解、相互欣赏、相互交融的过程。爱情达到这样一个程度，就需要婚姻这个形式。婚姻家庭既是物质的承载，也是心灵的港湾。它给你提供了一种慰藉，不管经历了什么，你不要任何理由，就可以回到这个港湾。
27、我觉得婚姻应该会更丰富长养人的内心，而不是使它更苍白更软弱，或者更懈怠。你有婚姻，但你还是会想到你的事业和职责，你的职业还是会带给你神圣感、敬畏感。
28、妻子不贞，丈夫有一半责任。丈夫不贞，太太也有一半责任。如果把对方逼得落荒而逃，责任就更大。
29、糟糕的婚姻可怕吗？它不过像一所学校，你在其中经历了最钻心的疼痛，最委屈的磨练，最坚韧的忍耐，最蚀骨的寂寞，最无望的等待。以这样饱经考验的心面对未来，还有过不去的坎吗？
30、幸福女人的背后都有一个本质不错的，智慧的，很替妻子着想的丈夫，这不是靠女人**就能**得成的。这样的男人，懂得欣赏女人的优点，包容女人的弱点。甚至，他们如同一支点石成金的妙笔，发觉女人自己都意识不到的潜能与才华。婚姻是懂得，是珍惜，更是成全。
31、选对了那个愿意爱你疼你为你一生的人，即使以裸婚开始又有何妨？咱们“裸婚不裸人”！漫长的一生有足够的时间让奋斗来填补裸婚时的空白，跟自己命中的那个他（她）为爱经营一生才是获得幸福的王道！
32、好的婚姻能使一个人起死回生。
33、离婚有一百条好，就一条不好，觉得以前都白过了。
34、不能把婚姻看成是一种结果，因为以后的日子还很长。
35、结婚前要做健康检查，恋爱时要做智力测验！
36、婚姻意味着男人生活的另一个阶段已经开始，而我是自己坚定地走进这个围城。
37、在婚姻中，爱情很重要，但是了解更重要。跟一个人相处很久，如果互相不了解，这个爱也是很难记住的。
38、夫妻相处首先就是要坦诚，大家要不就不结，一结就不要离婚。婚姻要大家一起经营，不是单方面去经营，这样的婚姻一定会长久。
39、婚姻的神奇之处在于点金成石，温柔被经年的婚姻一过滤就成了琐碎，美丽成了肤浅，才华成了卖弄，浪漫成了浮华，情调成了浪费，很难见到夫妻多年还能够彼此欣赏相互爱慕。
40、婚前与婚后：婚前一见面就亲嘴，婚后一见面就斗嘴；婚前生活妙不可言，婚后日子苦不堪言；婚前谎话都是情话，婚后情话都是废话；婚前的男人很幽默，婚后的男人很沉默；婚前做什么都浪漫，婚后做什么都浪费；婚前情话绵绵，婚后谎话连连。婚前爱情是神话，婚后爱情是笑话。
41、婚姻是爱情的坟墓——如果没有房子，你连坟墓都进不去！
42、婚姻生活者，半睁眼半闭眼的生活也。天下没有十全十美的男女，如果眼睛睁得太久，或用照妖镜照得太久，恐怕连上帝身上都能挑出毛病。
43、相爱是种感觉，当这种感觉已经不在，他还在信守承诺，这是责任；分开是种勇气，当这种勇气已经消逝，他还在鼓励自己，这是悲壮。所有的婚姻到最后，多少都有点儿悲壮，只不过有人悲壮出了温暖，有人悲壮出了猥琐。婚姻的杀手，向来不是外遇，而是时间。
44、女人的婚姻就是一场心理暗战，是不断战胜自己的过程，也是不断向自己妥协的过程。
45、婚姻虽然让人感到遗憾。恋爱是糖，吃来甜，过则腻；婚姻是水，渴者向往，不渴者淡。
46、结婚以后，结婚前的经过也就变得无足重轻的了，不管当初是谁求谁，反正一结婚之后就是谁不讲理谁占上风。
47、婚姻中最重要的就是坦白，这夫妻两人本来就是同体，不应该互相隐瞒的。只有坦白了，才能少一些误解和争执，多一些理解和帮助，所以说坦白是婚姻中是最珍贵的。
48、恋爱时钞票拿来更换靓衣买到浪漫，婚姻时钞票要用来供奉柴米油盐解决尿不湿。
49、把男人想象得太理想的女人，终归不会有太理想的婚姻！
50、没结婚前，我好像一只自由的小鸟。而现在则是一只被栓了链子的狗！
51、离婚是解决错误爱情和错误婚姻的最妙良法。
52、婚姻是自己的，就如同自己的生命和呼吸一样，别人无从参与，别人的意见只是参考，其实对于每个人来说，幸福的婚姻都是一样的，而不幸的婚姻却有各自的不幸。
53、在婚姻中，相互尊重是第一位的。生活中有很多甜蜜的时刻需要慢慢分享，有很多困难的时候需要我们共同承受。彼此的一些小性子、小脾气，我就把它理解成生活中的小插曲。更多的时候我们都是抱着相互理解、相互包容、相互支持的心态。
54、六种“极端”男人嫁不得：极端自私自利的男人；极端花心好色的男人；极端男子主义的男人；极端吝啬小气的男人；极端松散懒惰的男人；极端恋母情结的男人。
55、糟糕的婚姻可怕吗？它不过像一所学校，你在其中经历了最钻心的疼痛，最委屈的磨练，最坚韧的忍耐，最蚀骨的寂寞，最无望的等待。以这样饱经考验的心面对未来，还有过不去的坎吗？
56、婚姻是自己的，就如同自己的生命和呼吸一样，别人无从参与，别人的意见只是参考，其实对于每个人来说，幸福的婚姻都是一样的，而不幸的婚姻却有各自的不幸。
57、我觉得婚姻应该会更丰富长养人的内心，而不是使它更苍白更软弱，或者更懈怠。你有婚姻，但你还是会想到你的事业和职责，你的职业还是会带给你神圣感、敬畏感。
58、婚姻生活者，半睁眼半闭眼的生活也。天下没有十全十美的男女，如果眼睛睁得太久，或用照妖镜照得太久，恐怕连上帝身上都能挑出毛病。
59、我一旦结婚后肯定不会离婚，无论发生什么事情，我都会想法解决，让婚姻能够长久，哪怕是对方有了外遇，我也只会把事情摆在桌面上来想法解决，而不是冲动地离婚。
60、婚姻是什么？钱钟书老先生说：“婚姻像围城，城里的想出去，城外的想进来。”这句话早已成为婚姻中的经典。培根说“婚姻是爱情的坟墓。”列夫？托尔斯泰说：“幸福的家庭都是相似的，不幸的家庭各有各的不幸。”太多的名人、名家对婚姻有着自己经典的解释，给生活中的人们许多经营婚姻的启示。
61、在婚姻中，相互尊重是第一位的。生活中有很多甜蜜的时刻需要慢慢分享，有很多困难的时候需要我们共同承受。彼此的一些小性子、小脾气，我就把它理解成生活中的小插曲。更多的时候我们都是抱着相互理解、相互包容、相互支持的心态。
62、结婚后夫妻也是最重要的变化就是婚后夫妻不再相互欣赏。具体地说就是，无视对方的优点，没有赞美，没有表扬，更多的是挖苦和讽刺；无视对方为自已所做的一切，认为一切都是理所当然，没有发自内心的感恩。
63、婚姻就像一个魔盒，它改变着婚姻中的男人和女人，而这种改变倒不是婚姻本身起作用，恰恰是婚姻中夫妻自已在改变自已，也就是说男人女人通过婚姻这根纽带有意或无意地在改变着自已。
64、以前我没结婚时，就想到了某个年纪一定要结婚的。可是结婚后，就发现一纸婚书也代表不了什么，名分、承诺也是如此。人生的归宿不一定是婚姻，但一定要有爱。
65、不要继续刺激愤怒中的男人，他们会像具攻击性的爬虫类。即使你说的都是对的，急怒攻心的男人不会认为自己有错。
66、选对了那个愿意爱你疼你为你一生的人，即使以裸婚开始又有何妨？咱们“裸婚不裸人”！漫长的一生有足够的时间让奋斗来填补裸婚时的空白，跟自己命中的那个他（她）为爱经营一生才是获得幸福的王道！
67、幸福女人的背后都有一个本质不错的，智慧的，很替妻子着想的丈夫，这不是靠女人**就能**得成的。这样的男人，懂得欣赏女人的优点，包容女人的弱点。甚至，他们如同一支点石成金的妙笔，发觉女人自己都意识不到的潜能与才华。婚姻是懂得，是珍惜，更是成全。
68、婚姻就是：一个乐天派的女人，嫁给一个乐天派的男人，最后变成两个悲观论者。
69、婚姻中的两个人，就像是行走在沙漠里的一对游客。开始的时候感受着脚下的绵绵细沙，背着满满一壶的幸福，**澎湃的去实现自己的梦想，慢慢的，时间长了，走得也远了。当初的**已经被沙漠的险恶所磨灭，取而代之的是身心的疲惫，再次举目，沙漠的尽头还很遥远，回去的道路又不见了踪影，猛然间才醒悟，原来梦想不一定都是美好的。
70、婚姻必须切实*淡似细水长流，*淡才能长久，细水才能长流，但*淡不等于无味，细水不等于完全波澜不惊，否则就是走入婚姻的另一个极端，也是婚姻的另一个死角，淡而无味毫无新鲜感才是婚姻的致命伤。
71、婚姻里的人都在看外面的花花世界，很多人为此付出了惨重的代价。婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌肯定是付出代价的，无论你是对是错！
72、真正相爱的人是不需要无时不刻在一起的，他们需要的是精神上的沟通和默契，是对彼此心灵的助长和赞许。他们尊重对方的生活方式，宽容以待；他们同时拥有自己的人格和世界，不容破坏。他们相容，并且相让。
73、爱情和婚姻的基础是忠诚、信任和妥协。如果一个人非常疼爱你，但却出轨，那不是爱情；一个人非常重视你，却一直不相信你，也不是好的婚姻；而两个人看起来很相爱，却都不愿为对方放弃自己的部分生活，这更不是长久的爱。忠于爱情，信任爱人，相互牺牲，这才是美满的婚姻。
74、婚前与婚后：婚前一见面就亲嘴，婚后一见面就斗嘴；婚前生活妙不可言，婚后日子苦不堪言；婚前谎话都是情话，婚后情话都是废话；婚前的男人很幽默，婚后的男人很沉默；婚前做什么都浪漫，婚后做什么都浪费；婚前情话绵绵，婚后谎话连连。婚前爱情是神话，婚后爱情是笑话。
75、没有绝对正确的婚姻保鲜高招，没有对所有婚姻都管用的灵丹妙药，婚姻是否有活力，能否保鲜，最关键的不是寻求这些保鲜招数，而是心里常有这根弦，心中有了这根弦，你就会想出适合你自已婚姻的保鲜招数，夫妻就能常爱常新。
76、爱情是冒险，婚姻是保险，外遇则是好险，你希望遇到什么险？
77、猜忌是婚姻生活的一颗毒瘤，聪明的夫妻懂得如何一起努力去巧妙化解，被猜忌的一方要做好自已，猜忌的一方要多些信任与释然，相互理解，相互信任，相互忠诚，减少误解，加强沟通，避免因为猜忌毁掉美好的感情和幸福的婚姻。
78、结婚的原因是来电，离婚的原因是短路。
79、婚姻最重要的基础是相互的爱慕、欣赏、信赖和感情的交融，以及对责任和义务的共同承担。婚姻是双方在这个基础上携手同行的起点。进入婚姻的秩序意味着你不能逃离了，你要承担你必须承担的责任和义务。
80、能够慢慢培养的不是爱情，而是*惯。能够随着时间得到的，不是感情而是感动。所以爱是一瞬间的礼物，有就有，没有就没有。但反过来说，爱和婚姻实际并不是一回事情，并不是所有的爱情都要结婚的，也不是所有婚姻都有爱情的。
1、一个人要超出他的环境及出生，提高是不够的，非要进化不可，那样大业，岂强人人做到。
2、终生像似太长，却又太短，待搞明白有何宿愿，二十一年已经从前，那么四十岁之前若不促把所有该做或不该做之事做妥，之后也无甚作为，所以人人不够时间。
3、在金钱与恋情眼前卖弄自尊，是最笨拙的事。
4、做不到是你自己的事，午夜梦回，你爱怎么回味就怎么回味，但人前人后，我要你装出什么都不产生过的样子。你可以的，咱们都可以，人都是这般活下来的。
5、一代不如一代，一代比一代辛劳，这一代最辛苦的是已经以为辛苦是天经地义的一件事。
6、实在，兴许不那么浪漫，但相亲确实是一个找到婚姻最保险的方法。家庭背景、身高体貌、学历资格、甚至家族有没有遗传病因都可能一目了然，最大水*上躲避了婚姻的危险。对婚姻来说，这显然是最实惠的。
7、社会只爱健康的聪慧的，肯拼命的人，谁耐烦跟谁婆婆妈妈，生活中所有都变成公事，相互应用，至于世态炎凉，人情淡漠，统统是畸形的。
8、人是那样庞杂的一种动物，想懂得对方基本是不可能的一件事，没有了解，又不能相处，倒不如单身。
9、争先恐后是不自量力，精打细算变为太工心计，维护本身等于损人利己，几乎做什么错什么，被欺负得退往墙角，不过是因为无人撑腰。
10、你要改是由于你本人乐意改，不要为任何人，怕只怕那人会令你扫兴，你又得打回本相。
11、良多花心的男人往往是***出来的：他在家里找不到生涯的快活，在女友身上领会不到暖和，只好，去家外找其余女人叙情感了
12、婚姻决裂的两大最终起因：相拥却并不相爱。相爱却不懂相处。婚姻里，夫妻间的相处比相爱还更主要。
13、婚内aa制，不是走得久远的措施，或者说，它只合适男女来往的初期阶段，等夫妻双方的独特阅历越来越多，aa制天然就该适时的退出历史舞台了。
14、很多人并不相爱，却能够相处一辈子，爱是十分轻易令人厌倦的。
15、夫妻是否具备健康的心理状态、夫妻双方性情是否般配、是否理解有方式的经营婚姻，这些是决议婚姻幸福圆满与否的三大要害因素，缺一不可。
1、很多人都是千帆过境，才知道该如何去爱一个人，爱一群人。我不想因为在年轻的时候因为不懂得爱而让那些对的爱错过了。
2、在这个忧伤而明媚的三月，我从我单薄的青春里打马而过，穿过紫堇，穿过木棉，穿过时隐时现的悲喜和无常。
3、你在桥上看风景，看风景的人在楼上看你。明月装饰了你的窗子，你装饰了别人的梦。
4、能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶。
5、你的心就是我的海角和天涯，我不能去得更远。我们此生共赴天涯海角，不是游走半个地球，而是人间相伴。
6、每个人都有自己的青春。青春就像交响乐，奏响生命的绚丽多彩；青春就像剧本，演绎着缤纷多彩的人生；青春就像生命，让我们欣欣向荣。
7、追求和渴望，才有快乐，也有沮丧和失望。经过了沮丧和失望，我们才学会珍惜。你曾经不被人所爱，你才会珍惜将来那个爱你的人。
8、一个人，一条路，人在途中，心随景动，从起点，到尽头，也许快乐，或有时孤独，如果心在远方，只需勇敢前行，梦想自会引路，有多远，走多远，把足迹连成生命线。
9、世界在这样一个温柔的角度里被切割。日光像水银般倒灌进去，所有的缝隙都被填满。凝固后发出镜面的光，反射出一千个世界。
10、旅游时最好的*惯：找个舒适的小店，挑张雅致的明信片，送给中意的TA，背面写上：某年某月某日，下午某时，天气晴，我在某地，想念你。
11、我们都太爱自己了，两个太爱自己的人，是没法长相厮守的。当我们顿悟了自己的自私，在以后的日子里，也只能够爱另一个人爱得好点。
12、我要准备好行李启程了，谢谢关心我的家人和朋友，为我祈祷*安就好。我的旅行，会有你们的故事陪伴，所以我不会孤单。放心吧。
13、友情是一朵灿烂的婴栗花，希望我们一生只知道品尝它的花香满枝，而不要去触碰它的阴暗，体味它那撕心裂肺的苦涩！
14、青春的美丽，不是街衢流行的名牌时装；青春的旋律，不是吉他弹奏的缠绵忧伤；青春的潇洒，不是臂臀摇摆的忸怩作态；青春的快乐，不是车轮旋转的郊外飞扬。
15、你还想啥？你还犹豫啥？就只剩一年了。你也不要再挑三拣四了，有我这样执着、痴心而且又发誓对你好的人就赶快抓住吧！快爱我吧！时间紧迫哟！
16、一个人，到了一种程度，真的会什么都为他想了相爱的人若不适合在一起，何不LETHIMGO？互相怀念，总比互相折磨美得多！
17、快乐要有悲伤作陪，雨过应该就有天晴。如果雨后还是雨，如果忧伤之后还是忧伤。请让我们从容面对这离别之后的离别。微笑地去寻找一个不可能出现的你！
18、不知道为什么，我最*得了一种怪病，走路时想着你，吃饭时想着你，工作时想着你，看书时想着你，睡觉时也想着你，你说，我是不是喜欢上你了？
19、两个人一起是为了快乐，分手是为了减轻痛苦，你无法再令我快乐，我也唯有离开，我离开的时候，也很痛苦，只是，你肯定比我痛苦，因为我首先说再见，首先追求快乐的是我。
20、我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的，那些是错的，而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事，然后等待着老死。
21、不是每个人，在蓦然回首时都有机会看见灯火阑珊处等候的那个人。于是，只能在回忆里众里寻她千百度。
22、青春，是短暂的，是绚丽的，好似一颗流星，耀眼夺目的光芒，可最终逃不过损落的命运。我们都不会忘记曾经她闪亮过。
23、我不去想是否能够成功，既然选择了远方，便只顾风雨兼程；我不去想，身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨，既然目标是地*线，留给世界的只能是背影。
24、或许，青春是一个成长的转折点，我们在乎的只是结果，可有的只是过程。当青春经历过后才知道原来自己现在才是真正的长大了。
25、有人说：青春是快乐的源泉；快乐在这里流淌，痛苦也在对面徘徊。有人写，青春是多雨的天空；雨露在这里蔓延，阳光也在天边等待。
26、我不昰在为我自己的生命奔跑，我要抢在终点之前挽救对我而言极其珍贵的东西，我自己的生命此刻已经毫无意义了。
27、感动是什么？一千个人有一千种答案。但，无论是谁，都无法对一个毫无感情的人说出感动究竟是什么。因为感动不是用嘴说出来的，而是用心品出来的。
28、旅行是一种病。一旦感染了，你就再也无法摆脱。它还是一种传染病，最后你可能把这种病传染给其他人而你自己根本就不想从中解脱出来！
29、自从人生路上遇到你，我的生活便色彩绚丽。你是我的唯一，我将一生伴随你。不管今生多大的风雨，我们永远相守不分离。
30、最宝贵的东西不是你拥有的物质，而是陪伴在你身边的人。不能强迫别人来爱自己，只能努力让自己成为值得爱的人，其余的事情则靠缘分。
——关于婚姻的谚语英语 30句菁华
1、男人老实少是非，女人贤慧家和睦。
2、冷热夫妻水长流，激烈夫妻难到头。
3、妻贤一半福，妻孬望天哭。
4、一个豆太少，四个豆太老，三个豆正好，不要分文，白头偕老。
5、好狗不叉鸡，好夫不打妻。
6、家有千斤担，妻挑五百斤。
7、公不离婆，秤不离砣，筷子不离筷箩箩。
8、遮体保暖粗布衣，恩爱相处结发妻。
9、一个好汉三个帮，接个婆娘手一双。
10、夫妻吵架，自己转弯。
11、结发夫妻丑也好，双线补衣破也牢。
12、娶妻娶德不娶色，娶妻子要娶有德行。
13、夫妻一条船，落难两相帮。
14、找郎要找五大员，身体健壮还有钱。
15、丈夫在人面前走，带着妻子一双手。
16、夫妻和，全家乐；夫妻吵，老少跑。
17、夫妻伙的脸，二、四、八月的天。
18、家有贤妻，男儿不遭坏事；家有恶妻，男儿坐穿牢底。
19、两口子打架不记仇，黑哒共个花枕头。
20、婆娘管汉子，金银满罐子。
21、不看男儿妻，单看男儿衣。
22、孝顺儿女，赶不上半路夫妻。
23、女大五，欺了祖。
24、买猪不买圈，媳妇靠教劝。
25、不能只看她长得俊不俊，要看她的内心美不美。
26、结婚不宜早，只要配的好。
27、妻子要小，二麦要老。
28、要热是火口子，要亲是两口子。
29、买锅的敲敲再买，姑娘了解了再娶。
30、夫妻常吵闹，邻居都看笑。
